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30. Happily ever after with Mr. Wright

Women are seeking for Mr. Wright from childhood until maturity.

If you ask a little girl which is her vision of ideal man , she will answer : "Handsome as Cristiano Ronaldo. Cute as Justin Bieber. Brave as Chuck Norris. Smart as Bill Gates." During life, women will meet many wrong men, many frogs instead of prince charming, and they will see that fairy tales are not reality.

Once my friend asked me: "Where to meet Mr. Wright?" For sure, not in balcony at home. An opposite to old stories from our grandma, real guy is not your destiny and he will not knock at your door to propose you. You must go out to meet him. 

Women meet guys in different situations. Lisa met her future husband in the train, when she was travelling in another city. They started usual talk and he invited her for a coffee, and that acquaintance became relation later.
Sally met guy in the night club, when she was dancing alone and drunk, that guy thought that she is professional hired dancer because she was standing in sexy clothes near dancer's cage.
Emma knew her husband from childhood , but they never noticed each other until the day she split with her present boyfriend. He was her comfort and later, of course, new boyfriend.

If you want to meet right guy, you must be ready. Coco Chanel said that woman should be pretty even when she goes to market or even when she is at home. But also you must be ready inside . Women who are depressive, sad and angry all the time are unpleasant partners. For example, Alice was angry on every men, her quote was "men are pigs" and of course she did not met anyone. I mean, who would like to drink coffee with her, she took bad impression.

Which women have the best chance to meet serious partner?

1. successful women 
they attract positive energy, they are busy with own business and they will not be desperate to catch first man in the street

2. cheerful women 
smile is an aphrodisiac, who would resist to charming smile?

3. women with many friends
 if woman is popular in society, her chances are bigger, because she will have more opportunities and contacts

4. balanced women
 if woman don't expect too much , if she stand up right on the ground, she will be more valuable in men eyes

5. women with experience 
 if you have life experience behind you, it will be easier to recognize some signs 

So, ready for your first date with Mr. Wright? If you love yourself, who would not like to meet you?

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