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31. Strategies in love relations





What is love without fantasies and strategies? Sometimes it is real race, and we compete who will win. Men are simple, they give us simple signals. If man says "i like you", he likes you. If he wants to marry you, he will ask you.
Many women are misguided by thinking that men give us double signals. Maybe when they are teenagers and immature, until they have no experience. Little kid will tease girl because he likes her. When mature man wants to seduce woman, she will know it because he will clear expose his intentions.


Women are different. Indeed our nature is more confusing. That is theory of seducing, how we seduce man by words . We want to give them message, that we are not easy and that they must work hard to get us.




Girl likes guy and he invites her for a date.


Possible answers:

- i don't know for today, but i will let you know soon
- now i am busy , i will tell you later
- yes i will go with you, but don't take it as relation immediately
- maybe
- ask me again and you will know


Games are made by women. 

When guy asks for sex, then game goes to higher level.


Women will reply:

- i am not ready

- i have headache
- it is not the right time
- if you are serious, you will wait
- do you want to take advantage?
- do you love me?


Women will hesitate, make excuses,  buy time to get a guy for long relation. Every woman has game with more levels. The one who pass all levels wins award.

Bad player will quit in first step. Average player will try and give up. But the best players will be resistant until they got a score. It also depends about wishes and expectations. Some guys are lazy and they will rather choose more available woman, because they think their odds are better if they play on safe. Others will deal with challenges, no matter how much time they need. Man with experience will not give up on the first sight.


So what kind of player you want? 

If you deal with little boy, he is insecure and it is easy to break him. Some women like to play teacher and student game, because they feel superior in this situation. Weakness of this game is that you never know what to expect, and soon as he will get bored, you will lose. When two people are not on equal level, it is hard to make harmony.  Follower must take a step to be closer. Breakup is here when one person stayed on first level, and other is already far away on level 50. 
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