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91. Let's be together again


















Ways of heart are strange  and love is unpredictable phenomenon. We can love same person twice because first time maybe we were not ready and mature enough to realize that is true love. Sometimes, couple will split and then make reunion again after a while because they missed each other too much and something left unsaid.

When is it possible, on which way you can fix your broken relation and start again? 

Think about what separated you in past.


Reasons might be : 

- if your partner went in another city and you meet him after some time, if you are both still single
- if you were both too young and your relation broke , so you can meet again in mature ages
- if tradition, religion, parents did not approve your love, you can split temporary or hide, then it is possible to continue relation in other circumstances


Just, be careful if you want to be together with the same person again. That person can use fake reasons to misguide you for his selfish purpose. 



For example in this cases:

- you were poor, now you earn big money
- you were the one who broke relation, now your ex partner wants to get revenge
- that person just want to make someone else jealous
- that person is lonely and he doesn't have anyone new in his mind, so he tries with safe option


Relations are as mirrors. Once they broke, you can fix them, but you still see through cracks. Also, the same mistakes are not allowed anymore, because every time you say or do something what broke your trust, it will be flashback. Oh no, you did it again? He is again turn around every time when pretty woman appears? She again spent your money in shopping without ask you permission?



Richard Burton and Elisabeth Taylor were twice in marriage. This famous couple passed through split and reunion, they split again but she was love of his life. They were proof that love is not enough. 
The same happened to Sienna Miller and Jude Law, they split and they were together again, but they were not meant to each other. 



When you start new relation, you are without burden because everything is new. You will be more relaxed with someone who is unknown for you and for your heart. But when you start relation with same person twice, you are nervous, because it is like you are reading the same book twice. Maybe you missed something important so you did not understand the point?

That is individual, and everyone can try. If it doesn't work again, remember why this happened. Problems which appeared for the first time are still here, in second form, because you can't still solve this. That is the reason why you stuck in abyss and there is no way out.

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