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142. Poker game with life

Why something is going wrong even we expected different? It was not meant to be. God had different path for us. I am cursed, psychic told me that i will never be happy. I did not give coin to beggar so i will pay my karma.
Making apologies for our problems and mistakes is an easier way to accept failure. It is harder to say, that we even did not try, we were lazy or just delusional about some situations.

We are creators of our happiness. It is true that some things in life we cannot predict or stop, but we have choice between more life paths. Life will give us cards, and we will play. It depends about our strategies, how we will play with this cards. Good player play with bad cards, but still there is a chance to win. Bad player play with good cards and still there is a chance to lose.

What is considered as destiny indeed is an opportunity.
We will fail in our attempts because we don't use chances in front of us. If we afraid of changes, this makes things more difficult. 

How to solve problem if we can't move on?

There are more kind of opportunities.

- missed opportunities
- opportunities which are not recognized
- opportunities which are not created

Three women wanted to find partners. They were invited on birthday party in restaurant, organized by mutual friend. All that women stuck because they failed on different ways, and result was zero. They did not pass in this life math.

Eva was grumpy whole evening, she recently broke up with boyfriend and she forgot to smile. Nobody contacted her , because on her face was word "don't approach, i will bite you."

Sonia talked with Sam. He was kind and nice, but Sonia talked also on her cell phone whole evening. She stuck between two conversation, one with her boss on cell phone, other with charming Sam. He did not asked for her number at the end of this evening because she was not focused.

Lana noticed handsome Paul, but he did not noticed her, he was busy with her blonde girlfriend. Lana was sitting near Glen, and he wanted to pay attention on himself. He was jumping around her with glasses of champagne and plate with cake and she did not even say thanks. Paul was her choice, but he was taken. When Paul left earlier, Lana wanted to talk with Glen because she felt alone, but Glen also left the party.

That women met together after one week. They blamed bad luck, bad position of zodiac planet this evening and strange paths of destiny. Neither one said what really happened.

Sometimes, we are on the right time in the right place, but we stuck on wrong path. Our thinking and our attitude is not the right one, and result will be negative.
When we play poker game with life, it is not enough to have good cards. Also, we must offer good strategy and joker from the pocket, as our plan B or plan C.
That is why quote says : do it today, or regret it tomorrow. This chance might never happen again.
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