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191. Game warm - cold

How to capture somebody's heart? This question will be actual when we fall in love in someone. If person give us signs about interest, we are on the half way. Another question is, how to keep this special person forever?

Some relations are short as hamburger, and after that we have only bitter taste in our mouth. We can compare this with fast food, short pleasure and problems with stomach later. I wish i never met him or i wish i could skip day when i met her are statements about such partners. 
Other relations are long, and some couples have special recipe, what keeps them together. Why you are bonded just with this person and why you don't want anybody else?

Human mind has special spots. If we press right buttons and that spots are activated, we will be donor of love. This person has something that we need.

What will women say, why particular man captured their attention?

He is the best in bed i ever had. I feel like most desirable woman in the world with him.

He has strong character. This is so sexy. I can lost in my problems, but he knows the way out.
I feel calm with him and he makes me smile like nobody else.
He respects me, indeed he is real gentleman.

Men will say:

I stopped to drink with her help. Finally i feel free from that addiction.
She taught me to dance, to swim, she was my savior when i felt like a jerk.
I love her smile and her tenderness. She can melt my heart.

If you want to keep your love, try to enter in his or her mind. What she wants the most in her life? Can you give this to her? What he missed? Do you have this surprise for him?
When two person fall in love, things can be complicated. One can be far away or already taken. If you want someone who is already in relation, think about what are your chances. You can offer to that person something to fill her emptiness. Maybe this relation is not place where she feel happy. 

For example, Melissa was in long relation but her boyfriend did not want to marry her. She met Timothy and he propose her, so she broke her previous relation. 

One of methods to capture someone attention for a long time is to be unavailable from time to time. 

Don't reveal all your tricks immediately. 

Be silent. Silence is sometimes gold, he will wonder what are you thinking.
Ignore that person , he will ask for you.
Make conflicts from time to time. Conflicts are sources for sparks. He will be tense and after that he will run for you.
Tell him that you are busy, that you are travelling or you have much obligations. He will fight for your attention.

If you are mysterious, you will be desirable. We all love challenges and secrets. This make life colorful. Unpredictable person is sexy. If you use the same pattern every time, you will be boring. Don't afraid to make your partner angry. Why should you agree with everything he said? You have your attitude.

Love is explosion and some sparks must be also negative, then you will have real bomb.
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