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A girlfriend from the corner

When you want something so badly, you don't think about risks and negative side effects. Passion will lead you until you reach your aim. Later you may cry or regret, because the same passion can destroy you inside. The same is about love, if you love someone and all what you have with this person is large amount of passion, your chances to stay forever are small.

Everyone talk about love, but many don't know the meaning. It is easy to say i love you , more easier to have great sex and mission is over. Life is not love story, so after one hot night with sexy guy you will not have bunch of children and house with big garden, if you don't add another ingredients into your relation. 

You want real love story and guarantee for happiness.

Which are a basic elements for a real love?

Appreciation. If you look at your partner from heights, if you underestimate person, this is not love.

Respect. If you humiliate your partner, you want relation master-slave, and this is not love.

Attention. When you give crumbs to your partner and your mind is somewhere else, that person is not in your heart.

Devotion. If you turn back to your partner when she needs you the most, you are traitor.

Honesty. Don't hide important things from your partner. Don't lie because lies will be discovered. 

Fidelity. If you cheat your partner, you will break her heart. 

Understanding. If you don't understand wishes and priorities of your partner, you are selfish person.

Honor. Show your partner how much is special for you. Give her invisible crown.

On first sight love looks simple. One eye blink, kiss and hug, passionate sex and you will wake up happy. What when troubles appear? Who will left this warm bed first? 

This is story about Adele and Michael. She fall in love in him at first sight. It was his advantage because he liked Adele, but she was not accord his standards. He prefers silent, traditional woman with kind smile who will talk only when he asks her opinion and who will adore ground where he walks. Adele was hot tempered girl and their conflicts started very soon. They became lovers and sex was amazing, but as couple they did not match. Michael hide her and it was open relation. Adele accepted this situation because she was crazy for him , but with time she was more and more unhappy. One day she rejected his invitation for sex. Michael was surprised because he did not expected that. He repeated his wish , but she rejected him again. She was rejecting him six months. When he saw that she is not so easy as he thought, he became furious. They stopped to talk. Michael found new girlfriend but Adele was in his thoughts all the time. He lost her love because of own stupidity. These days they started to talk again. They are formal now when they meet in the street. Adele still think about him but she is now more happy because finally she got his respect. Maybe one day they meet again, when Michael come to next level of maturity. Until then Adele live her life without humiliation , with feeling of honor.

Adele was girlfriend from the corner and she could not find exit for a long time. She discovered another love, love toward herself. Nobody can humiliate you and make fool from you if you don't give him permission.

If you don't want to stand in the corner, be brave and make steps to the main door. Ring and get in without shame, because you deserve this.

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