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Every breath you take



You can't hide real love no matter how much you try, because signs will reveal your secret. Also, you can't pretend that you love someone if you don't feel it , because sooner or later heart will expose your intentions.
When friend asked me how she will know that somebody loves her, i said that she must follow signs. 




Which are signs that somebody has crush on you?


He follows every your step and he talks much in your presence, just to be noticed by you.

He will tease you just to pay attention on him.

He will listen you even you talk without sense, because words came out from your mouth.

He will laugh on your stupid jokes.

If something is not alright with you, he will ask you what happened.

He is jealous on his competition, no matter are they your ex boyfriends or friends.

He wants to be in the same friend circle where are you, to make his approach easier.


Women will often make mistakes about words i love you. Such words are not proof of love if actions can't support them. 





The most often misleads about love signs are next:

He said i am love of his life. Bullshit, especially if he says this at the start of the relation. This is too serious statement for someone who just met you.


He said bad words to my ex boyfriend. He broke nose to my friend. It's because he loves me.

Violence and bad manners are not signs of love. That are signs of insecurity.


He talked bad and dirty about his ex girlfriend. It must be love.

If he talked nasty things about his ex girlfriends, you will be next topic. Next whore, slut or bimbo will be you.

He buys me so many things, and he doesn't let me to pay his drinks or tickets to cinema and club.

When someone try to buy your affection, he wants to mark his territory. Later he will not let you to go out without him, in dress which he bought for you.

He said that i am the best woman he had in his bed.

Sex is not measure of love, because be sure he said to other girls before you , the same things.

He confirm everything what i say.

That is only sign that he has no attitude.


Couples in love will be noticed at first sight, even they are not kissing and hold their hands every time you see them

Harmony is like sun, it simply glows. Pamela and Sam often finished their sentences, they have common interests and they help each other with problems. They are not kissing in publicity like crazy, but when Pamela broke leg, Sam was every day in the market to buy food and make lunch for her. 

Theresa and Ted were working in the same office and they had debates all the time. They were always on opposite sides. But one day someone saw them after work, they were kissing in coffee bar. 

On other hand, Leonard and Rhoda were in long relation, but they were always quiet and formal. So after few years they separated. Leonard prepared this end for a long time, but he did not want to hurt her, even everybody knew that something is not alright. His eyes were always somewhere else, and Rhoda was alone in this relation. 

So, if you not sure is somebody return his feelings to you, look at his eyes and you will find answer. Men world is maybe cruel, because if he did not choose you, he can be rough. You will know that you are not this one, and don't try to push him because you will cause disaster. At least, elimination of one choice always leads to others. 

As Stings sing : "Every step you make, every breath you take, i'll be watching you."


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