367. When you fall in love in chicken man
Love stories are unpredictable, Cupid arrows hit unknown targets and in relation is possible with many various combinations. You can see people on first sight, and think: "How they finished together?" When you scratch under surface, you will understand why some couples split very fast, and why others are inseparable.
One of bad combinations is relation between weak man and strong woman. No, i don't think about relation between wrestler woman and man who dance ballet, i talk about their characters. It would be natural that man is firm, bold and stable, and that woman can count on him. Especially if woman is sensible, fragile and gentle lady, that kind of man would be great match for her. Sometimes, life plays cruel games, and strong woman will involve with milksop.
If you think that this is relation where woman rule, you are wrong. This woman has many problems because such man is unstable, undecided and unable to take important decisions.
What would be milksop?
You can recognize him in few steps.
He asks from you to pay your bill when you are in coffee bar.
He expect that you drive him in your car. If he lives in another country, you should take a plane and fly to meet with him.
If his friends don't like you, try not to upset them. They are so important to him , and their opinion can bury you.
If someone attack you, he will runaway, so you will deal with your enemy alone.
If his mother don't like you, try to please her wishes. He is usually favorite son and masterpiece of his mother.
He is usually passive, so if you need to take decision, he will let it to you.
In such relation, woman is usually abandoned in her beliefs and she feels alone. This relation is boat, and you will drive this boat, if you quit, you will drown together with your milksop. He can disappoint you even in bed, because as real puppy he will expect that you make him horny. The best thing you can do is to wake him up. Leave him somewhere in unknown city to see will he find way out. Let he goes out with your aggressive brother or friend, to see how he can handle this.
This kind of men you can often meet in virtual world. They will create many pages , they are romantic on first sight, they use sweet words and nice approach, but if you expect action from them, you are on wrong address. They expect granny with cookies, because they are unable to do significant steps.
What can happen to them is to meet much older woman who will be kind of mother for them. On such way they can continue with lazy life, where they don't need to do nothing, because everything will be done for them. They need big bear who will carry them as little kids, because they are made from sensitive materials. Lioness use too much hard ways and it can ruin their peaceful life.