409. Heartbreaker is not into you
Heartbreaker is special kind of man. Deep in himself he hates women, for some reasons. Difference between him and playboy is in ability to feel. Playboy likes women, he tries to give love to every woman, even it is not possible to make everyone happy. This guy is as thunder, he hits and leave devastated hearts, and he doesn't feel guilt.
How is it possible that some men hate women , even they are heterosexual? If you know man who hit woman, who leave her with few children and doesn't care for her, who leave pregnant woman without explanation and who doesn't give alimony, he is such kind.
Let's go to the past, so you will see why A, B and C became heartbreakers.
Man A. He is son of divorced parents. He lived with mother, and she was changing her lovers as socks. So in this flat were many men. It was uncle Sam, uncle John and bunch of uncles were regular guests in that home. Mother of A was slut. Everybody talked about this.
Man B. He was poor and ugly. Girls were mocking him and nobody wanted to go in prom night with him. He was the main topic of bet and jokes.
Man C. He was weird. He could not fit in, and girls were avoiding him.
Time was playing important role and with years situation changed for this guys.
Where are they now?
Man A lives in another city. He is cute guy, but his relation are short and instant. His bed is very traffic. He has sex with women and later he leaves them, without explanation. Reason: all women are sluts.
Man B is rich. He earned a lot of money and he has private business. He is using women for sex and he can't fall in love. Reason: every woman will break his heart because he is ugly.
Man C is still single, but he is the main star at internet. He has popular profile and women are asking for him. He thinks that all women are the same and he breaks hearts virtually. Reason: women would leave him anyway, and that is a dream.
Sometimes, our trauma has deep roots. Something hurt us in childhood and we can't go further. Mother who beaten her son. Mother who left his son alone and gave him to adoption. This man can't blame his mother, but she is now everywhere. Her mirror reflection is in every his relation. He can't get rid of bad vision, and that is why he can't love.
If you will date with heartbreaker, he will behave on this way:
He will be jealous on every man in your life, no matter is this father, boss or friend.
He will accuse you that you are dishonest.
He will check you and control your movement.
He will be distrustful and suspicious.
Whatever bad happens in your relation, your will be main culprit.
If you want to owe his heart , it is not enough to seduce him. You must change his perception about women. If that is possible, you have chances. Be gentle, kind and persistent, but don't insist too long. Your heart is also not a toy, and don't let him to play with you.
Heartbreaker will wake up when he lose someone who really cared about him. You don't need to seek for revenge. Walk away quietly , without track.