429. Curse of rejection
Role of hunter is not grateful position. Men are by nature leaders, and from them is expected to do first steps. Especially, if they wish to get certain woman, they must be ready for everything, from gentle rejection until harsh kick in the butt. As much real man will take leash in his hands, he will also know when to back off, and when is time to stop with his attempts.
Croatian football player Ivica Olić is happy married, but accord his story his present wife denied him few times before she accepted to date with him. Also, Cristiano Ronaldo got rejection at first time from Irina Shayk, his present fiance. Women sometimes tests how much guy can handle. Unfortunately, some guys are not so wise to recognize real rejection from warm-cold strategy. This is also women fault, so women will play and make fool of men in some situations.
How to separate real rejection from warm-cold strategy?
If woman is interested for you, and she is not yet sure, she will give double signs.
She will say no if you invite her for date, but her next sentence will be : "Maybe next time, i will let you know."
She will let you to follow her into her street, but she will not invite you in her flat.
She will talk with you, but you will not get permission to kiss her.
She will even sleep with you, but next day she will be unavailable.
She will delete you from Facebook but she will not block your page. Just , for any case, she may expect your message.
If woman is not interested for you, she will not give you any chance to repeat your questions about her and you.
If you call her, she will block your number.
If you send her message, she will block your page.
Follow her, she will call her friends for help.
She will appear with another man in front of your eyes if you are annoying. This is very clear sign.
If you try to kiss her, she will push you away. Alert, here you are in danger zone. She can slap you.
Some men are not gentlemen and they don't accept other choices. Real gentleman will accept word no with silence and dignity. This man will not make you troubles. Also, you might sorry because he will never disturb you later. He asked you once , you denied, and he gone. Your problem is another man, called jerk. Jerk will chase you and spread gossips. Jerk will tell you that you are whore, fat or short, and that you are ugly. All because you did not want to date with him.
The worst follower of rejection is denial. If you deny to yourself that person rejected you, if you repeat her words and ask some hidden meaning, you are on wrong path. Some guys think : "She said no? Maybe she is shy? Or her friends talked bad about me? Maybe she is not ready today, but i can wait. "
Delusional guys are often jerks. They can't admit to themselves that some women don't accept them. They must learn how to accept negative answers. Until then, such men will hunt in blurry zone.