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Are you a dumb blonde?

One of the most familiar stereotypes are views about blondes. No matter is that natural hairstyle or woman just dyes her hair, blondes will never stay unnoticed. In movies with romantic story, the mistress is a usual blond woman, and wife is a woman with brown or black hair. A good example is ex-US president John F. Kennedy, his wife was Jacqueline Kennedy, the lady with brown hair, and the whole world bragged about his blonde mistress Marilyn Monroe. Blonde women are labeled as easy, stupid or cheap, accord superficial men. In one hand, a blonde woman will be someone fatal, and in another hand, she will be a woman which is easy to get. Alfred Hitchcock was a big fan of blondes, his favorite actresses were Kim Novak, Janet Leigh and Grace Kelly, all blondes.There is something intricate in a woman with blonde hair, with transparent white skin and blue eyes as a combination.

The last woman hanged in Great Britain was Ruth Ellis. She was blonde and she killed her lover with pistol Smith&Wesson. Her lawyers advised her to change the color of hair for better impression on the jury. She did not listen them and she kept her blonde style. Her lawyers had thought that Ruth would have better chances to avoid death penalty as a woman with brown hair. In that age, blonde woman was considered as promiscuous, easy and slutty. 

Here is a big contradiction, because the blonde woman will attract more attention, but at the same time men will not get her serious. Sharon Stone broke one big judgment about blondes, her IQ is 148, even she had a fatal role in "Basic Instinct" and she is famous from the scene with crossed legs, where she showed that she did not wear panties. 

Blondes are also subject to jokes so you will hear jokes about blondes, for example: "How alcohol effects to you? Blonde spreads her legs." On first sight, jokes are funny, but if you exaggerate, it leads to judgment and mockery. 

Despite jokes and stereotypes, many women will dye hair in blonde, to be more attractive and more noticed. Blonde hair could make them look younger and sexier. 

Which are the most often misleads about blondes?

Blonde girl is a good mistress, but the bad wife. She is unfaithful.
Blonde girl is dumb and uneducated.
Blonde girl is promiscuous.
Blonde girl is a magnet for troubles, even in conflict with the law.
Blonde girl is not confident.

If you go for an interview for a job, nobody would recommend you to wear a short skirt, too much makeup and to dye your hair in light blonde. It would be right way if you work in a casino or in nightclub. If you wish job at an office, you will give the wrong impression. Remember the movie "Legally Blonde ", were nobody gets serious Reese Witherspoon, who played blonde girl. For the first impression, it is better to play on safe cards. Later, you can be what you wish.

Human nature is superficial, and people will often judge book accord cover. Do you remember fairy tales about a princess with golden hair? 

It was a story about women who were so helpless that they could do nothing without men. They were fragile, dependable, and only strong man could save them from troubles. Their only job was to smile and clap their hands when some knight fought for their affection.

Stereotypes are a sensitive field. We must balance as on dance floor. Sometimes we must dance to other's music, even we don't like this. You need to pretend that you are sweet innocent shepherd girl, even you are the fatal woman. Also, it is very important to know with whom you are dealing. If you are the part of the world where people judge each other by the color of hair or skin, it is necessary to know their rules. Then you can make the hole in this stereotypes and break this in the suitable moment.

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