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What does it make a material girl ?

Have you ever dream that you woke up and your whole day is free, without any obligation? Simply, you can throw your alarm clock into garbage box and continue to sleep. Your beloved man will work whole day for you, and all you need is to be beautiful, just for him. 

Economic crises has many side effects, and one is flood of women who want to get marry for rich guy. It is hard to find good job, even harder to work 40 hours a week or more, and to be hard working woman and housewife in the same time. If you have kids, you have triple role : wife, mother and business woman. What's left from your life? Do you see how your mirror shows wrinkles, eye bags  and your face is just a shadow what you used to be?

Gold digger is name for woman who wants to get marry for rich, successful guy. If you are pretty and sexy, it sounds as easy task, but that is not at all. Actress Dolores LambaĊĦa, who was in relation with entrepreneur Dikan Radeljak, once said: "That all girls want to jump on my place, they are waiting under my window to take my position." Even that rich man is not handsome and young, even his character is maybe bad, he is rich and his bank account is all what you need. I mean, look at Bernie Ecclestone or Flavio Biattore? I bet that they would not have such beautiful women if their wallet is not full of money. Imagine that one of that two guys work as cleaner or as carpenter? Maybe they would stay single till the end of their life.

What you really need if you want to catch rich husband?

Beautiful look. It means, perfect shape of body, pretty face and style.

Be on the right place in right time.

Control your emotion. You don't fall in love with heart, you fall in love with rational mind.

Good stomach. Maybe your husband will be frog, not prince. Maybe he will ask things from you which you are not ready to give. 

Education is not necessary, but you need to be enough smart to stay silent in some situation. 
Smile and kindness. As Barbie, you are here to smile, not to talk. You are accessory. 

Focus on your aim. Your ex, your friends, or your parents, nobody should stay on your way.

Be ready for loss. Some girl will wait to push you from your place. Remember Donald Trump. Ivana was his first wife, then her place took Marla Maples, and then beautiful Melanija. You are not irreplaceable, so know your time and your limits.

Many people use word material girl, for woman who caught good husband. Just, not every woman who is married for rich guy is gold digger. Some women will progress with a help of her husband, he will invest in her abilities and she will build own business empire. Ivana Trump is today successful business woman, even it doesn't look from the start. Some women just need good springboard. When she get wings, she can do all alone later. 

How will guys recognize such woman? Are you married with digger?

She doesn't want to work nothing, she avoid every kind of work, because she is sick, tired or whatever.

She will not try to find any work. She will paint her nails, go to spa or in wellness, and your credit card will be active all the time because she is in eternal shopping.

She asks expensive things from you. If you don't buy her Armani, Prada or Gucci stuffs, you are loser.

She will go everywhere with car. Why she would walk to the shopping mall? Her legs are tired.

She sleeps a lot and she hired other woman to do her housework. She has servant to wash laundry or dishes, because she can't make her hands dirty.

If she wants to travel, she will choose exotic destination. Don't be skimpy, she wants to see the world.

If you don't want to please her wishes, you don't love her and she will abandon you for some guy with deeper pockets. 

If you lose your work, she will leave together with your money. What, you think she will stay with poor guy?

Material girl is not woman who cries because of love. She cries because of lost opportunities. As Madonna sing a long time ago: "I am material girl and i live in material world. "

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