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Karma is a bitch

Life will not spare us of pain. Tears and wounds are part of living, and we are hurt unexpected, when we are not ready for this. Things are more worse when your friend or lover hurts you. Someone you kissed and hugged, someone you shared secrets and trust suddenly is your enemy. That is double scar, person who break your heart and trust. When enemy hurts you, you are less wounded, because that was not person who lived in your heart.

Our reactions will be various. If you don't wish vengeance, you will forgive, and try to forget. If you like revenge, you will not have peace until you return this kick. Here is one more way, life will be your supporter and karma will do great work.

What is karma and how does it work? I talk about karma as balance. If you do bad things to someone constantly, it will come back to you. If you hurt innocent person, you will suffer with time. If you hurt someone who loves you, you will get the same treatment from person you love. Pain is connected chain, so large amount of negative energy will spread and in right moment, bad person will get lesson.

What happens in this reclaim moment?

Person x will ask "why this happens to me?"
Person x remembers something from past, bad actions and deeds.
Person x will ask for forgiveness.
Person x will pass through circle of pain.

It is hard to wait that karma hits person who makes your life miserable . Sometimes, that person will stay unpunished, but karma will focus on children and relatives. Target of pain is not always person who did something bad. Karma is cruel and that lesson could be collateral damage. 

One example shows this.

Adele had short relation with Roy. She was  young and she explained him that it was not real love so she wanted to be free. Roy did not accepted this, he stalked her, disturbed  on phone, and gossiped her around, to ruin her reputation. She was unpleasantly surprised when she found title on her car "Adele is a slut". It was bad act and Roy also wanted more, he entered into her friends circle to turn her friends against her. It was hard time for Adele, because she was studying and she was focused on exams. She finished college and she got work as lawyer. One day she found article at internet, about local accident. Roy was injured by knife . He was in hospital because his girlfriend stabbed him. Adele felt relief.

Some people will say, it is not nice to celebrate misery of others. Well, if you suffered because someone gave you pain, you have right on your personal celebration. Make your little party and enjoy this moment. Later, when you drink in the name of karma, forget this. Don't remember what was bad and sad. Set yourself free. There is a saying that karma is a bitch, because you never know when it will hit you. 
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