When pain comes out, that is easier part. You cry, scream or break plates and glasses, but this poison is far away from you and you are pure. Now this purity shines through your heart because you found a way how to throw your negative emotions. The same is with expression of love. If you said to someone i love you, no matter about answer, your conscience is clear.
What happens when you love someone who is forbidden to you? Grass is greener in other garden or your neighbor's fruit is sweeter, so you will shut your mouth and deny your feelings, even to yourself. The same, if you think that your chances are small for any reason or if you want to date with your ex again, there is a chance to be ashamed later.
Is there a way to declare what you feel and not to get embarrassed?
That is a cross of every man, how to tell women what they feel and not to hurt their pride. Some ways are sophisticated and their meaning is double. It helps you to save your dignity and to get positive result. If nothing else, you will get impression as cool dude.
Say it without words. Send her a photo at mobile phone. She will ask for a meaning and for a sender.
Send her romantic, mysterious message, without name. She will see number and maybe she will call you.
Help her with exam or with work project. If you shake her hand, and she hold your hand longer than it needs, she likes you.
Save her from pests and stalkers. Girl will be grateful if you help her to get rid of annoying guy.
Borrow something from her, as an excuse. It can be CD, movie or a book. You will have reason to call her again.
Women nature is complicated. We will appreciate more if you approach to us easy, from background, because it makes guy mysterious, more interesting and harder to get. Guy who open his heart so easy is boring and women will not trust him.
For example, the same guy said to four girls that they are beautiful. Every weekend to another. They were friends, and they talked about him. His name was Roger.
"Roger said that i am sexy. " "Oh really, he said to me that i look so beautiful. " "Yes, and he invited me on date, because he could not take eyes from me..at least he said this. "
As much guys have bad opinion about woman who change her sex partners, we women will think the same about man who gave a lot of compliments. Guy who sent mails on internet as chains, to all women. That guy who tag all women with word i love you. Or guy who will invite all his colleagues from work at office party, to make compliments for any of them.
Every woman wants to feel special, but also there is no woman who wish to feel as number. If you think about her all the time, let she knows. Maybe she will say no or maybe she will laugh. Maybe she will accept your love. Or maybe she will suggest you friendship.
The worst solution is to stay quiet or to date with woman who is your second choice. You will make double damage : to hurt her and to make yourself unsatisfied and frustrated.
In old times knights were fighting for honor of ladies and they even died in duel if someone offended woman of their heart. Today is no need for sacrifice, but you can use your imagination. And remember: guy who is first, win the lady.