You wish to meet guy who will rock your world, who will fight for you and change your life. Instead of this you got someone who just want to drag you into bed.
How women jealousy begins? It is based on the fact that men categorize women. Men will , maybe unintentionally pick women for marriage and women for sex. If you are in second category, you have bad luck.
So, your boyfriends are indeed friends for benefits? Are you target for fuck buddies?
Some women were born with discipline and self control. No matter are they raised in traditional , conservative family, or they are just like that by their character, that kind of women will have big advantage. They have walls, and men will be interested to break those walls. Woman who will not fall on sweet words on first sight, who will not accept invitation for bed immediately is for sure woman worthy of attempt. Other kind of women were born as passionate, but they learn with time how to make difference between real man and player. They were there, they passed hard time, and they know all tricks. This kind of women are even more interesting, they will show all what they know in bedroom, but just for the right guy. Now, the last category of women are those who never learn. They fall every time on the same exam. They know the questions but their answers are still wrong.
This facts will reveal to you, are you in third category, as easy target.
You can easy fall in love. One blink of eye, sweet smile and your heart beat faster.
You will jump in bed after two weeks or less.
Your clothes reveals more than it should be. Short skirts, transparent blouses, too much makeup, high heels in every opportunity are signs that you want for attention of men.
You changed more than 10 sexual partners in short time.
You will talk open about sex, in front of unknown men.
There are lot of gossips about your reputation, and many are true.
Leslie was always loser. She had many boyfriends but her relations were short and unhappy. Other women would pick cream, and she would just get bones from men. She was watching, during many years, how her friends were married, one by one. Then she met Bryan, who had a lot of patience. He was at first very harsh to her, he even called her slutty, but he had enough nerves to stay with her. Then she saw difference between him and other men and she fall in love in him. She even rejected ex boyfriend who wanted to sleep with her again.
One of negative things, when you accept to be someone's bitch, is that you will think, all men are the same. You will maybe skip the right man, because of your perception. Or you will maybe cheat right man, because you learnt this during years, not to play fair. These are obstacles you should avoid. If you were fuck buddy, it doesn't have to stay like this. It is important to recognize tricks, that situation when man try to drag you on thin ice.
When men categorize women, they will act on the same pattern. If woman was married, they will take her seriously. If woman was promiscuous, they will ask her for sex. It is so similar as the last scene from the movie "Nymphomaniac. " She was talking with man, all her story about her dirty past. At the end, he wants to sleep with her too, and she rejects him. And he asks her : "But why, you fucked thousand man, so what is the problem?" She shot him with a gun. The message of whole story is, your reputation is your friend or your enemy. You can get lucky to find man who will read between lines. Or you can swear life, what was wrong with you.