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4 forms of a marriage crises




A marriage is a holy connection with a partner, insurance of your love. This person belongs too you and ring is a symbol of dedication. What happens when this ring doesn't mean nothing and when signature on formal papers is just a formal letter, without worthiness?

Young Croatian tennis player Donna Vekić recently became subject of gossips. Accord press, she is guilty of a broken marriage. She is new girlfriend of Stanislas Wawrinka, 30 years old Swiss tennis player.
His marriage came to the end and now many blame young and pretty Donna, that she is the main causer of disaster.

Typicall opinion of moral policy is against a woman in this triangle. Many will pull the trigger on Donna, because she is 18 and she should not involve with the married man. How many will blame Stanislas , who declared divorce from 10 year older wife? His explanation is, he wants to be free again.

Married men pass through crises.


It  happens on next ways:

He wants to go out with friends more often.

He wants space for himself.

He would like to meet new women.

He wishes to divorce because he wants to be free again.


It is easy to judge the young girl when it comes to disaster. His wife is older 10 years than him, and now he meets beautiful young girl. That girl is inexperienced and life is maybe an only game for her, but shall we hang her because she was in the middle of marriage disaster? This is hypocrisy of society, to blame the woman for all. It takes two for dance, so nobody forced this guy to hang out with Donna. She could give him signs and seduce him, but if he truly loved his wife, her odds would not be good. He would maybe use her for one night stand and make it secret. That is how some men do when they want everything, a good wife and hot mistress. 

It is not possible to be free as a single man if you are in marriage. You took some responsibility and obligations. The married man who is dating with other women is just a jerk. Sooner or later someone will see him and then it will be beginning of the end. Wife will blame other women because that is easier. You can't kill bitch because she is younger, slimmer or more pretty than you are. You must ask yourself, why your husband lost interest for you? Is there anything to keep you together in this marriage?

Even you have the ring on your finger, it could be on fire when you reveal that your husband is prince charming for some other girls. You can slap her or spit on her, but husband will escape anyway if there was nothing left to keep you together more.



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