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The duff ( Designated ugly fat friend)

Do you know the meaning of word DUFF? That is Designated fat ugly friend, by urban dictionary. So, now you expect creature about 100 kilograms weight, with thick glasses or pimples on face, who wish to be in your company? Or, maybe you wish to find someone similar, to pull more attention on yourself because two good-looking persons will look better with a third, plain or ugly person, who is walking with them?
Society is cruel, especially when you are young. Everyone will talk about inside look, about the beauty of personality, but these things came out when you get older. When you are young, there is a possibility to collect crumbs from your pretty friends, because you are duff. 

Saturday night is here and you wish to go out, to meet awesome guys. You focus your attention on one, but he is too handsome, too cocky or just unavailable. Lucky for you, he has a duff friend. 

What is the task of this duff?

You can talk with a duff friend, to collect info about your guy.

If you are familiar with a duff friend, you will be invited to a party where is your guy.

Duff will not be rude toward you. He is happy because he talks with a pretty girl.

Duff is intro in the big game. If you talk with duff, now you are ready for next phase. 

In society, everyone plays roles. Soon, some guys will realize that they have power because of their natural benefits. 

Sean was a handsome guy with 3 ugly friends. Timothy, Ryan, and Wesley were cool guys, but they were virgins even they had 25. If you look at them, they would remind you of Adams family. Girls called them Team Gethaldus because they had glasses. Even Sean was rude to them, they did not want to leave him. When Sean dumped the girl, she would cry and complain to Team Gethaldus, they were shoulders for crying. Sometimes they would even get a kiss or hug from that abandoned girls. Also, they learned a lot about women psychology from Sean, and once when he was in good mood, he gave them some advice. Later, when they created own business their luck turned over. 

For sure many girls felt like the duff, in the company of their good-looking friends. For comfort, everyone can be in the role of Duff. Imagine yourself as a friend of Scarlett Johanson. You are pretty, but she is a star. Or, maybe to be a friend of Paris Hilton? She is famous, and everyone will ask about her, you will maybe drag her bags in shopping time.

Some girls will avoid the company of popular friends because they don't want to be in the background. The other will intentionally find ugly friends, just to feel superior. In any kind of such friendship, these reasons are bad. You can't underestimate person, because she is maybe ugly, but she could be smart, talented and creative. You might hurt someone and regret it later. 

There was a time when I was an average teenager, with my sexy friend. She was in short skirts and high heels even she was 16, and I was a nerd kid. Everyone asked for her, and I was kind of postman until I quit this. The guy interested me even I was her duff. She wanted to give me advice about him but I wanted to get out from her shadow. Later, I broke with her and with this guy, but I learned about myself. Lack of self-confidence will indeed make you the duff. 

If you are the person who sits in the corner in the nightclub, if you reject everyone who tries to approach you, if you are grumpy all the time and you make conflicts from nothing, you are the duff. This label is something that you stick on yourself. Society is sometimes ugly, but members are here to change the rules. 

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