559. Emotional slut





Emotional burden on your heart is not easy to handle. This moment when you feel bitterness  something in you wish to share it with others. Your hand will grab cell phone to call friend. "Now, something is urgent, i must tell you what happened to me. "  You will say what's bother you to your best friend, then to your second best friend and to your work mates, your relatives, maybe some passengers on the street too? If you act like this, you are kind of emotional slut.

Feelings are something sacred. If you feel ashamed because of something, if you crossed line of behavior, if you fall in love in someone who is not appropriate, you should be careful to whom you will say this. Now that is trap, because people will judge you or share to others. It is not the same when you say : "I love to drink hot coffee" or to say "I love tied hands when i make love. " 

When some women complaint that guy did not call for next date, they need to return to their previous conversation. 



Did you say something like this:

"My ex was moron. I recovered very hard from past relation."

" I was promiscuous. I could not find the right one."

"My ex was impotent. For me is sex very important."

"I had HPV virus. From that moment, i am careful with whom i will go to bed."


Men will avoid person who cannot control her reactions. If you see savior in man who is sitting in front of you, he will afraid and escape. It is not the point will you make love with him soon, the point is that you opened yourself too fast. Which details stayed hidden? If he knows all about you in half hour, he will not call anymore, because he heard enough. 

The real image of emotional slut is person who open internet profile and talk about details from her love past. Once i saw profile of model, beautiful girl who talked about her ex boyfriends, to leave her alone. She exposed their names and wrote : "Leave my life. Stop follow me. " She did not understand that she did opposite of her intentions. When you are mature person, you don't react in public for something what is in your private inbox. On this way, she just feed them with attention. Nobody felt sorry for her, some were thinking  "what an idiot woman. " 

There is no more interesting moment for man than waiting moment. He waits your statement about your feelings. When you give him pending time, when you are silent, he will know that you are worthy of fight. He waits that you tell him "i love you. " If he knows all so fast, you will kill mystery. "Ok, she is crazy for me so i get bored with this. " 

You can fix your slutty approach if you stop giving him attention. Turn him back and wait what will happen. It is not that the most beautiful women always win. Winners are those with most interesting personality. Try to imagine yourself on his place. What would you do when one guy would admit his feelings on first date? Or , if he tells about himself that he is tired of being abandoned and he asks for girl who will never leave him. Do you see big lash around your neck? The same is when you run for guy and expect from him to give you love back, just because you already love him.

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