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Why you repeat the same mistakes?

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Mistakes are part of life. When someone says that everything is going smoothly all his life, that person lies, because the reality is not video game. We never know what can go wrong and how many levels we need to skip our score.

If you constantly learn from your mistakes, this price is very expensive. Sometimes is necessary to learn from others. Mistakes are problems with hidden chances and family roots. In your family is maybe the person who failed in one situation, and now you are passing the same problem. Will you do the same or you wish to read the previous book about this?

Louise had all chances for success. Pretty girl and the talented teacher had many proposals for marriage, Problem was in her wild side, she was very stubborn and she left her home early when she was 23. She found a man and got married to him, even he was only 19, not ready for marriage. She got pregnant so they lived in marriage for a year. He left her with the excuse that he can't be a father, he was too young. After this Louise found another man, who was without a job. They married and stayed together whole her life. He was not a good husband. Lazy, aggressive, he dared to slap her even she was the one who earned money. Louise gave birth to 3 sons, all were lazy as their father. When school mate met Louise, she started to cry and talk about her failed life. 

20 years later her niece Catherine was a student. Also pretty and talented girl, she was studying law. Catherine had this family inheritance, stubborn character, and wild nature. Her boyfriends were all the same, hooligans and bad ass guys. But, Catherine did not follow the example of his aunt Louise. Her mother always talked her about Louise and her destiny. She used to say: "Don't finish as Louise. You will work whole your life for some scumbag and even worse, if you will have kids, they will have the same gene. In the end, Catherine had fun with all that guys, but when it comes time to get married, she listened to mother's advice. She got married to the man with aspirations, who was the successful businessman. 



If you learn from other's mistakes, results are next:

You know the story and you can get the different point.

You know where was the problem.

You are a winner in this dead race.

You are spared of troubles.


When someone warned you about a bad situation, this is battle with instructions. You know the enemy, you got weapons, now only your skills will decide the result. If you can't play good with good cards, you are a loser. It is not necessary that you repeat mistake which was already done. You think that is not the same so you will go at the bottom together with your forerunner? That is suicide. You remind on a man who jumps from the highest building and hope that he will not hit with his head on the concrete structure. 


If you think that life always goes with instructions, you are wrong. 

Sometimes, your fake friends will try to win over your back. Did you ever have a friend who asked you to help her with choice of job, friends or even partner? "Tell me which friend is good. Which guy is good for me, can you tell me? What kind of job is good for me, can you help me?" Some people ask for the nanny, to teach them how to avoid thorns and pick up roses. You are stupid if you go with bloody hands just to make safe ground for another person. 

Mistakes in love are so painful. 

If we could only know how will our story end, we would spare ourselves of troubles. Well, sometimes, some signs will tell you that someone before you passed something similar. That scenario already happened. Now you can use that script for your sake. Be wise and learn. This kind of deja vu mistakes happened to someone who can't fix it. You can do it if you can read between lines. 

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