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Why he did not call you back?

Pending time is a crucial part of human relations. How you deal with waiting, delays, and hesitations, it shows the level of your patience and state of your nerves. This is the entrance to your dignity. If you are a woman who is waiting, you will sometimes feel like a fool. If you are a man, maybe you will appreciate your partner more while you are waiting for a reply to your question.

Do you know how to read from silence? Or, you are chasing a wind? Some women will desperately still catch their prince, trying to translate what he wanted to say when he did not call them back. Typical scenario happens when two people are dating, and he doesn't call again. The naive girl will ask her friends what is happening or call him back. He will not be at home (how convenient) or his mother will tell that he is busy (probably with his remote control while he watches a football match. ) 

What to do, when he doesn't give feedback?

Wait few days before you do anything.

If he calls after a month, tell him that you are too busy to meet with him.

If he sent his friend to talk with you, tell him you don't have a deal with a friend.

If he asks for another chance, tell him that is the last. Would you like to be fooled twice?

Even women will try to make a story about a man who did not call, but he was so "in love", here is not so much to discover. 

He is interested in more than flirt when:

He asks you about your daily life.

He doesn't talk just about sex.

He doesn't talk just about your sexy body.

He remembers some details from your previous date. For example, that coffee was extra bitter or that waiter brought juice instead of cola.

He asks you for opinion, about something that is important to him.

He talks about his family members with you.

In expectation of feedback, some women will lose trust in men. They will use legendary sentence: "All men are the same", but they refuse to see what is their mistake. You can see with whom you are dealing if you think objective. Sweet words might deceive you, but just for a short. The background is more important than compliments.

Here are examples of two man. Kevin wanted just flirt, and Jean wanted relation.

Kevin dated with Melinda. He took her into a fancy restaurant, made a compliment about her dress and paid expensive dinner. When he drove her home, he wanted to enter into her flat, for a glass of wine. Melinda rejected him, and next day he did not call her.

Jean dated with Shelly. He invited her into cinema and they were walking after the movie. He made a plan for next time, to watch basketball together. He had tickets, and Shelly accepted. It was just one of many dates, which Jean planned.

When a guy is a short-term buddy, he will:

Make a rush. He is very fast, in everything.

He will watch his phone, talk with someone while you are sitting with him, and drive you home if he got bored at the date.

He will not call you back if he is not interested.

If you call him for an explanation, he will use the common excuse: "I am very busy, I have no time. "

Do you wish to judge short-term buddy? Well, are you always in relation, since you were born? As the girl, for sure you did not want to get married as the teenager or you did not want to share life with the first guy you met? That is the same what he is doing. A guy is not ready, he is jumping from flower to flower, as the butterfly. If you wish to squeeze him, he will just run away. Maybe is better that he doesn't give you explanation if he is not in relation. Imagine your shame if your friends find out that he was rude to you, on the public place. Or, that he did not forget ex-girlfriend. Silence is a very noble way in the absence of feedback. He did not tell you nothing, but you understand what he wanted to say. 

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