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Women on the first line




Harassment is sign of despair. When person try to get with force something what he cannot get on nice way, that is call for help. In many cases women will talk about sexual abusers, pushy maniacs who disturb them in real and virtual life. So called male pigs are everywhere, starting from early childhood when guys pull on hair little girls, asking for their attention, and until now days when man whistle to sexy woman on the street. 

For sure, every woman faced with unpleasant situation. You are walking and bunch of manual workers are yelling "Hey chick, come here sweetheart. Come to me baby , give me your number. " I see smirk on your face because every normal woman would not fall on pushy man. Now, imagine yourself in different situation. You saw handsome man in the street and start to stare at him. Next step, you wish to know his name, number of his phone, place where he is living. Sit on the bench in park where he is sitting, just to talk with him. He might roll with his eyes, but he is polite and he will listen what you wish, before he shows you way out. 


As much world is filled with pushy men, the same is on woman's side. Men will say that is good to meet pushy women with open mind, because of easy sex. Also, in the times of despair, men will use pushy woman to fill their needs for talk, dating, feeding ego. Well, not all men are the same and if you are really annoying woman, you are turn off example.


Helen went with her new boyfriend in local night club. Paul was never there, cause he was from another city and he wanted to see place where Helen live. They went to have fun and that night was big crowd. Paul felt that local women stare at him, he was different from domestic guys, his clothes was fancy and he had gentleman's style. Soon he felt hand on his butt . One of local "ladies" pinched his butt and smiled to him. Helen was very angry and drag his boyfriend on other part of club. Paul was equally surprised. His reaction was : "Don't worry my dear, she is indeed ugly. And it never happened to me before. " 

Maybe some other guy would think that is very cool to pinch him for butt, but Paul was gentleman and he had his standards. That woman was cheap in his eyes, and his girlfriend Helen raised her price. After all, Helen did not approached him first. He saw her mysterious smile and offered her drink and it was beginning of their story.

If you think guys are rude, if you had no success with guys, think about are you doing some mistakes.



This mistakes will rate you low:

You send your half naked photos to guys on internet, even you hardly know them.

You comment other photos as you never saw men. "Wow, gorgeous, perfect, masterpiece!"

You walk around half naked , inviting guys for a date or ask their number . 

You don't mind if guy you wish is already taken or even married.


Now, imagine yourself in bar full of men, and you want to buy a drink. One man hug you around neck, other man push glass of beer next to your mouth. Third man slap your butt. Abusing, start of raping, violence, right? Well, in women world is also possible to get bad experience. Handsome guy might feel unpleasant when woman's crowd scream his name as he is rock star. Woman could abuse on many ways, and still she will tell that she is a woman and that is allowed, because woman can't rape man.

When man has soul, he doesn't want to be raped on verbal way or emotional or any other way. When you push yourself as opportunity to particular man, you take him away his choice. Then, he will think in two direction : he might reject you and show you the door or he might use you for purpose, but i guarantee you that he will not call you again. 

Maybe you enjoy to be woman on first line, but it is not nice if you expose yourself as bad example. You don't need to beg, force or negotiate with man, if you want man. Some others would might kill for your attention.


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