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Couples before the internet

I was born in a time without cell phones and social networks. My generation met potential partners in nightclubs, friend’s circles and social events. We talked with men faces to faces before dating. We know we will maybe kiss a frog, but never a ghost.
Recently I came back from fantastic vacation. I checked my inbox and I saw messages from some unknown men at my Skype, Instagram, and Facebook. I never talked with those people and they are not on my friend list. I was wondering, how you dare to write me when we don’t know each other at all? The biggest surprise is their profiles, they are young (or they introduced themselves as young) and they should be at the beach and catch sexy young ladies. Instead of this, they chose to annoy married women.
I have constructive ideas for them. Why don’t they wash dishes instead of their mothers, find some job or go swimming, just to taste real life? This is the most easier, try to get a woman without paying her drinks, without listening to her voice and to ask her to show nudity. One click and they think to watch a woman in camera from their messy rooms. Lazy generation of jerks is not able to even to walk to next door and ask a sweet girl from the neighborhood for a date.
My mother and father were together while he was serving in the army. I came from ex Yugoslavia and army then had strong rules. The whole year my parents exchanged letters without seeing each other. They had no phone. For me, their love story is the most beautiful because of their devotion. Nowadays, guys open profile to show their oiled muscles and ask for a sex. That is cheap and so available. We women might choose between guys from 18-60. Who wants to see dick, just make a call.
It is not all black so I pick for friends only people who are at distance at first sight. If a guy wants my friendship he must know that I have a limit. I am not rigid so I can talk with men, but they must have dignity. As much is ugly to see naked women who offer her services, it is also ugly to see a man who gives all on the plate. Next time, it will be another woman, so I cry from laugh when I see the fight on the internet. The woman said to me that guy is hers. And I said since you are far away from him, how you date with him? Are you going to dinner with teleporting service? Do you kiss computer while you fuck?

As I said I was born before the internet. Also, I know every trap on the internet because I was curious to see new rules of the game. I have a circle of respectable friends who are able to talk about policy, art, philosophy. What is funny, a woman should not feel ashamed when the guy wrote the dirty message, because he is embarrassing himself. Unless woman did not ask for this, the guy is in the same position. Offer your dick to thousand women must be very disappointing while many women will insult him. 
It reminds me of the guy who showed his bolls in the train, while I was traveling. He was hidden in toilet and women were running from him. Why would cyber guys get better treatment?

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