Conscience - the biggest invisible executor which person could have. It prevents us to do something wrong and punish us if we do it. If you have the even little amount of emotions, you will cry after you did something wrong to someone who did not deserve it. Or, you will not sleep well at night. If you are a cheater, and you never admit it to your partner, you will walk around with bags under your eyes and burden on your back.
Media wrote about a romantic story about a guy who was traveling 30 hours by plane to visit her girl on vacation. She called him that he misses her, so he decided to surprise her. Even it sounds very romantic, remember that thing should have the good financial background. You need money to pay the flight, free days if you are working and something to eat until you get to your destination. Another thing, is girl really called him because he missed her? Maybe she had the opportunity to cheat and did not do it. Maybe that was a call for help. Or maybe she did it and she wants to wipe her sins. This year Big Brother in Croatia had an interesting situation. Marina, one of the girls, cheated her regular boyfriend with one of the competitors. She cried and kissed his picture, but at the end, she walked out with a rival who caught her heart. This was the cry of conscience.
It brings me to next question. Do we cry for others or for ourselves when we do something wrong, as cheating is?
Guy X is a married father of two children. He had a virtual romance with a beautiful woman. He said: "I don't want to hurt her. " He said he did not want to hurt mistress, not his wife. That is because he knows that he will never leave wife and mistress will get hurt. Wife is a victim but she will never know. Mistress knows what will happen so she is a bigger victim. Until wife got a knife in the back, mistress got a bullet in the heart.
If you are attractive, interesting person, you will be surrounded by a bunch of interesting people too. Many chances for the thief, isn't it? Sometimes we can feed our ego with talking, innocent hug and be trading meaningful blinks and hints, and that will be enough. Wolf is eating, sheep is alive. Well, sometimes a person is so hungry that she will eat sheep and turn into a bloody wolf.
A smart person will change her strategy as a professional football coach. Today I said I love you, but tomorrow I can't effort this so I will say I like you and I respect you, but I want to be on distance with you. If you felt desire and yet you did not do it, stop on time. If you already did it, be quiet and pretend that nothing happened.
You will be surprised how your best people can judge you because you drink coffee with someone you should not, or you just gave a compliment to the wrong person. And if you step out from the safe zone, even worse. They will say they would never do this. In fact, they did not dare or made control due to another thing. Sometimes, love is not the reason why you did not cheat. It is reputation, safety, financial security and fear of loneliness. That is what people are ashamed about, that they did not step into the forbidden zone because of wrong reasons.
Did you ever thought something like this: "Well I don't feel passionate rays, but I don't want someone other in my place so I will not move on. " That is something we ashamed of when we think about another person. Real love is full of some poisoned ingredients, especially if you cherish this for years. That you will sometimes get bored, or you would like to taste something else, and when you feel this will disappear, suddenly you change your direction. That is why men say: "I love my wife" when sexy mistress ask to leave her. At least, who would better understand their farting and dirty socks than the wife who shares the bed with them and cleans after them?