646. Seduce me with honor
The biggest challenge is something what you can't have at first, but there is a chance to get it. In this case you enjoy in the game, you are breaking chains and obstacles in a way to your victory. Or, maybe it won't happen, maybe result will be unexpected?
Remember actress from Hitchcock movies. Grace Kelly, Kim Novak, Tippy Heddren, they all had something in common : blonde hair, white skin and poker face. They were unavailable for men, but just for some time, until they decide what they wish for.
Ice princess is not forgotten. In the age when everything about sex is available, woman who take care for herself is very intricate. That cold blooded seductress is not a bitch, she is the one who makes rules.
Recently i saw girl in night club, while she was dancing at party, totally alone. She was gorgeous, and one by one, guys approached her. She would talk, take a drink from them, dancing and smile, but when anyone of them wanted to kiss her, she would set up her boundaries and walk away. She knew what she wants, and it was certainly not to be their toy.
What makes sex interesting are questions. This sparks will turn on when you don't know what you will get and how you will get it.
Girls, if you really want to seduce guy to be only yours, if you really want to make difference from other's , try this:
Talk with him as his best friend. Be nice, but not too close.
Leave your sentences unfinished. "I am busy in the moment, but..."
Tell him that you are ambitious and you work on something .
He will know that you are not focused just on him, and that will give him space.
Once when you get him, don't stalk him and don't show jealousy.
Be decent, give him a wink that relation continues, but you are ready to open door if he will not value you.
I read article where woman supported one night stand, as act of pleasure and freedom. Yes, you are free to have sex with anyone you want, but he is also free to kick you out. One day you will try to find someone who will stay with you, and believe me, guy who make love with you first night of meeting, will not stay with you. He will think that you are available for everyone else on that way.
I see how some open minded women act on internet. I have learnt, dignity is not connected with ages. Woman, about 50 years send her nude photo to guy who could be her son. It happened in public, and everyone saw this. You will say this is not my business, but when the same woman start to stalk other women because they are on list of their beloved guys, it is my business. She bother me because i am his friend and she is jealous cause she gave him "special thing on camera. " That is how woman's dignity has sold, on lower price.
Seductress is woman who is able to control herself, at first. You can get attention of many men if you are your master. Talk, walk and smile, but don't take off your panties everywhere. If you act cheap, your customers will be the worse men. Also, real seductress has honor. She doesn't chase anyone. If guy has left her, she will not ask for him more.
Can you imagine such love story?
"She had sex with everyone, but i got married with her. She impressed me with her skills in bed. "
Sounds vulgar, isn't it?
How about this?
"She rejected many men and i was chasing her for a months. She did not want to sleep with me until she was sure that i love her. "
Sounds better ? When you ask for serious partner, you need to turn on your serious values, honor and dignity. That are real ingredients for relation. If you make investment only with sexy bra and pants, you will get affair.