The biggest challenge is something that you can't have at first, but there is a chance to get it. In this case, you enjoy the game, you are breaking chains and obstacles in a way to your victory. Or, maybe it won't happen, maybe the result will be unexpected?
Remember actress from Hitchcock movies. Grace Kelly, Kim Novak, Tippy Hedren, they all had something in common: blonde hair, white skin, and poker face. They were unavailable for men, but just for some time, until they decide what they wish for.
Ice princess is not forgotten. In the age when everything about sex is available, a woman who takes care of herself is very intricate. That cold-blooded seductress is not a bitch, she is the one who makes rules.
Recently I saw a girl in a nightclub, while she was dancing at a party, totally alone. She was gorgeous, and one by one, guys approached her. She would talk, take a drink from them, dancing and smile, but when any one of them wanted to kiss her, she would set up her boundaries and walk away. She knew what she wants, and it was certainly not to be their toy.
What makes sex interesting are questions. This sparks will turn on when you don't know what you will get and how you will get it.
Girls, if you really want to seduce guy to be only yours, if you really want to make difference from other's, try this:
Talk with him as his best friend. Be nice, but not too close.
Leave your sentences unfinished. "I am busy at the moment, but..."
Tell him that you are ambitious and you work on something.
He will know that you are not focused just on him, and that will give him space.
Once when you get him, don't stalk him and don't show jealousy.
Be decent, give him a wink that relation continues, but you are ready to open the door if he will not value you.
I read an article where woman supported one-night stand, an act of pleasure and freedom. Yes, you are free to have sex with anyone you want, but he is also free to kick you out. One day you will try to find someone who will stay with you, and believe me, the guy who makes love with your first night of the meeting, will not stay with you. He will think that you are available to everyone else in that way.
I see how some open minded women act on the internet. I have learned, dignity is not connected with ages. The woman, about 50 years send her nude photo to the guy who could be her son. It happened in public, and everyone saw this. You will say this is not my business, but when the same woman starts to stalk other women because they are on a list of their beloved guys, it is my business. She bothers me because I am his friend and she is jealous cause she gave him "special thing on camera. " That is how woman's dignity has sold, at the lower price.
Seductress is a woman who is able to control herself, at first. You can get the attention of many men if you are your master. Talk, walk and smile, but don't take off your panties everywhere. If you act cheap, your customers will be the worse men. Also, real seductress has honor. She doesn't chase anyone. If a guy has left her, she will not ask for him more.
Can you imagine such love story?
"She had sex with everyone, but I got married to her. She impressed me with her skills in bed. "
Sounds vulgar, isn't it?
How about this?
"She rejected many men and I was chasing her for months. She did not want to sleep with me until she was sure that I love her. "
Sounds better? When you ask for a serious partner, you need to turn on your serious values, honor, and dignity. That are real ingredients for relation. If you make an investment only with sexy bra and pants, you will get affair.