Many articles talk about women who fall in love in married men. They are considered as victims, delusional or marriage breakers. Words are not saved, so slut, whore or bitch is not rare name for mistresses.
What happens when situation is an opposite? When single man falls in love in married women, how society look at this? Famous Richard Branson waited one year that his present wife divorce from her former husband. He loved married woman.
What kind of men can fall in love in married woman and got involved with her?
Men who had no luck in love. His partners are always wrong, and he is already so disappointed that he gave up from love.
Playboys. He ask perfect opportunity for relation without obligation, and married woman can’t commit to him cause he is already obligated to her husband.
Teenagers and young man in twenties. Their fantasies in bed starts with married teachers, neighbors or his friend’s mother.
Man with Peter Pan syndrome. He is afraid to commit and married woman is ideal for this.
Men in midlife crises. He is already divorced or he never got married, but he needs warm body next to him.
Now, this kind of affair has some rules, and if mad husband will not catch you , you need to stick to some rules:
As married man, spouse will not divorce in mostly cases. She needs refreshment, not commitment.
Husband is in first plan, so forget about spending holidays and vacation with her.
Don’t make her feel guilty. You knew she is married so you have no power as her husband.
Don’t be jealous. She will sleep with her husband too, at least she is a wife.
Expect messages and calls in unpredictable time. She can’t know when she is free.
In such situation, society will pity for man who got involved with spouse, and judge her who is cheater and marriage breaker. In situation where man is cheater, society will judge his mistress. In both situations, women are in worse positions, because mistress is a slut as cheating wife is a slut.
I wish to say, man can also found out himself in difficult situation. What started as sex can finish as broken heart. Man’s heart is also not from stone, he can really fall in love in spouse who is already taken. Then, what’s next? Do you want this woman because she is forbidden or you really want to steal her to be your wife?
In some situation fooled women fails and chose donkey instead of horse. She got divorce, but her lover is not interested for her anymore. It was great until here was drama and forbidden space. Now, when here are dishes and bills, all is routine, too much obligations and this is not funny anymore.
That happens with affairs, you never know when it could be worse. If you cut of affair and your husband still doesn’t know anything, you are saved. If you continue this road to hell, you can expect everything. Two or three broken hearts or another marriage? Time will show until you still have it enough guts to wait.