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Women are not weak as they look

Where is a fight, there is love. Since childhood opposite genders tease each other, make conflicts and argue, just to compare their mental strength. Men are strong gender by nature, but many of them underestimate woman’s will and character. Some judgments define a woman as fragile, sensitive creature, and the man who is educated in the traditional family will often underestimate a woman. He will see the weak creature in the corner with a face full of tears. Well, a woman can defend herself in thousand ways. She will seduce you to obey you. She will pretend weakness just to take revenge on you if you humiliate her. Be ready for her trick as on poker table. Especially men who are used to silent, obedient woman can’t count on such resistance. Remember, the woman is the one who is working and clean house after work, carry for kids and for your laundry and your meal. Women are multi-tasking, so how can they be weak? When you fall in love with a woman who can care for herself, she doesn’t …

You died for me, even you are still alive

Did you ever said to someone: „You died for me. „?  Maybe you regret it later, maybe you did not think in such extreme way, but you said it? I can imagine this situation and I see the background, too. The person hurts you. What happened so bad, to create all kind of demons in you? To understand the meaning of this words, you must understand someone’s soul. Everyone has a weak spot. Mine is honor and dignity. If I feel embarrassed by someone I gave my trust, if I feel betrayed by someone I gave my heart, I will not have mercy. My honor died in this internal war, so now I am killing you inside. You died for me, even you are still alive.  Death is not only physical. If you don’t talk with a person, if you don’t greet your ex on the street, isn’t it equally as he died? You will see through him, but this is meeting with a ghost. You will hear about him, but these rumors are just rumors about a shadow. Someone you used to know. Even you can’t remember the feelings, they have gone into the …

Are you the hunter or the kill?

Criticism is a sensitive field. It is easy to give critics, to mock someone, but it is not easy to receive this in return and to make a joke by yourself. Do you laugh at yourself, in public? Do you allow friends to tease you, even this means that they will overrate your faults and make your values smaller? There is a thin line between social clown and person who loves to make jokes about yourself. If you are a hunter, if you respect yourself, you will allow the certain dose of criticism but you will not be a doormat. If you ask me to whom you must be grateful, maybe my answer will surprise you. Yes, i am grateful to my parents because they give me motivation, strong will, and attitude. I am grateful to my sister because she stood on my side when i felt miserable. I am grateful to my husband for accepting me as i am, even when i was the worst nightmare. Mostly, i am grateful to my rivals, to develop my strength. As i passed my initiation, faced with many troubles and get out from bigg…

Your choice defines your path

People will often accuse bad luck of their problems. If your plan did not realize, if your dream stayed just a dream, bad circumstances are guilty of this. Now, try to look at people who are happy and successful, what kind of choice they made? Melisa was envious of her friend Sandra cause she lived in the happy marriage and had a good job. What Sandra got was not gift from heaven. She had few bad relations before marriage and she could not find a job a long time ago. She passed her karma and now she enjoyed on good days. What was key to Sandra’s happiness? She simply learned from her mistakes and changed her priorities.
Why we stuck in the same place and why we make wrong choices? We are addicted to something or someone. If you choose your partner when you are drunk, desperate or lonely, chances that you will fail are bigger. We can’t accept reality. If you push yourself to your possibilities, you will finish on the bench as a football player who wanted to be in the big club but there are b…