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420. Seduce my mind

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On first sight, seducing is easy. Touch this special someone , squeeze his hand, look him into eyes and kiss him. This is physical contact and body language will speak by itself. If you think that guy is sexy and handsome, you will easy fall on his charm and you will give him access to your heart. What will happen later? What if you reveal that you can't talk with him about any topics, that he doesn't understand you and that every your attempt fails because you don't fit?
Did you ever feel that someone seduced your mind without touching you?
When you fall in love in someone's mind and character, you are knocking on secret door. It means, you don't fall on person because of his sexy body or amazing eyes, you will fall on spiritual connection. This kind of love is deeper and more firm than sexual attraction. 
Lynette is pretty woman in thirties. She has no luck with guys and behind her are few broken relationships with various men who did not care about her. She did wro…

419. Artificial jealousy

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Your beloved man is cheating you? He doesn't pay enough atention at you? Or, he is just passive and sleeps as Sleeping beauty until you wake him up? Here is simply cure, make him jealous. This is usual recommendation when you need to save your relation. Also, this strategy works out if you are on half way to catch boyfriend, but you stucked in the middle.

Artificial jealousy is state of shock. You should make him terrified, that he is afraid to lose you. As everything what is not spontaneous or natural, such experiment could go wrong.




Before you use this advice, check this facts.
Your partner will be jealous only if he still loves you.
If you cheat him, he will see this as sign that you have open relation and he can do the same.
Make limits in your actions. You can dance with someone in front of his eyes, but don't kiss other man otherwise you will make scandal.
Be careful when you choose subject of your game. Don't hurt someone who loves you. 
Make a deal with your partner in cri…

418. Behind your back

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It is hard to stand up after defeat and bad experience. Also, this make you as easy target for gossips. Someone brags about you to your friends and it is not always pleasant to hear. Every smart person will create own opinion and use brain to check the fact. But, others may be suspicious  and you can lose their trust. As much we are familiar with someone, others will have less influence on our perception. Nobody can persuade you that your sister or mother is bad, because you live with them and that is your blood. Also you will cover your ears if someone talks bad about your husband. 

Well, what will be your reaction if you hear bad things about person you don't know well?
It depends about background of this situation.
Who is your source? Did you hear something similar before? Did you hear from more people the same thing?

New people may be refreshment in our life, but also this is risk factor. New girl at your workplace, new neighbor, new man in your life. Who are they and from where are …

417. Follow me into the dark

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How to fit in? This question will be in many minds, as product of fear that society will reject you. Since childhood we are looking for friends. Girls want to associate with other girls who are popular, stylish and fancy , boys want to be part of strong team, to play football or any kind of sport and prove their importance. Even our parents will watch out, who is our best friend, is he or she appropriate.
Now we have chosen friends, but how much we are influenced by others?
How do you know that your decisions are independent, and that someone did not dig into your mind?



If  you don't care about other opinions, you will behave like this:
You will not justify your actions.

You will not apologize for your choices.


If someone mock you because you chose certain partner or certain job, you will reply properly.


If someone blackmail you to change your decision, you will stand by your attitude.



Marsha and Kevin were in long relation. Kevin had best friend Arthur, who disliked Marsha. It was very t…

416. Love reminders

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It is not rarity that two people spend many years together, and then they just end separated. They will explain this as boredom or routine. They got tired from each other, from daily conflicts, from the same unsolved problems , and final decision was separation.
If someone says "they did not loved each other enough", that is big mistake. Sometimes, love is not enough to keep couple together. Famous tennis player Goran Ivanišević and his wife Tatjana spent much years together, they have two children but yet they are divorced. He was cheating her with model Vanja, later Tatjana found another man and they simply concluded that marriage has no sense anymore. They are now in communication because of children, because they wish to act like mature, adult people. Recently Tatjana gave birth to another child, with her present partner Vlaho. Goran was there to give her support. They are example of modern family. 

What is the meaning of past relations? Should we really burn every bridge,…

415. Invisible escort

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Snap, he broke up with you. You got  hard kick, and now your place is on the floor. This cold shower will not hit just your heart, it will affects to your ego, and after this you are victim of bad jokes or condolences. What is worse, that someone feel sorry for you, or that others laugh to you? Imagine when you are invited at wedding, and you recently broke relation. Now , all relatives are quick to find you perfect match. Then, you are surrounded by ugly friends, clumsy cousins or randomly picked strangers. They are your escort for wedding party, what a waste! In this situation, you are not in the mood even to talk with someone, and now you are forced to dance and celebrate other's happiness. 
New year's Eve, Christmas, Valentine's day, birthdays and weddings, that are all situation where you will need suitable match. If you are single, everyone will feel obligation to make you company, and this is green light for all desperate men to approach you, even you would like to k…

414. Dancing with myself

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Human body is not resistant on time. How we get old, we are more sleepy, tired and with lack of energy. Our will could be stronger, but our physical ability is out of battery. If you are not doing any sport activities, you will face it with struggle, how to stay in the race. 



Imagine group of people who wish to go out for weekend. They have plans, but what is with realization? What is suitable for their ages, and what is in their brains?

First group are young people, from 16-24 years.
Usually, they will go to night clubs. They will dance and drink whole night. Some of them will stay also on after parties. Tomorrow, they will repeat this, because party never ends.
Second group are adult people, from 25-30 years.
They are already working weekly, so they will think about how long to stay in clubs, especially if it is Sunday. If that deal is on Friday, some of them are maybe tired. So they will skip Friday to get rest, and they will meet in Saturday.
Third group are people from 31-40 years.
You …