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672. Are you able to look forward?

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Every important decision is result of few steps. Thinking, acting and elimination of another options. When you bring decision, you gave up from other solution which was not necessary bad, but you simply chose your path. The question i ask myself is next : “How good i am in calculation? Am i able to look forward, to predict my results?” I am not psychic, also i am very emotional and hasty sometimes, my ways are spontaneous, but i like to lean on my intuition and my experience. My experiences are indeed my filters, and i use this to compare previous situations with my present problem , because it helps me to bring the best solution. In business, friendship and love we must lean on some signs, which shows us that something will not finish good. These are factors which show that we are not on good way: Another side is passive, we are the only who try to progress. Another side doesn’t want to give up from bad habits. Another side is not ready for change . When my husband asked me: “How did you kno…

671. Attitude on high heels

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How many times i heard word about me : “You are bossy. ” This sentence came from people who don’t make difference between someone who give orders and someone who has attitude. Control freaks are people who want to have nose in everything and watch every step to check their partners. Bossy woman is the one who hold every corner in her house and doesn’t let husband to give another, different opinion. When someone is superficial and like to jump with conclusion, it doesn’t make difference. Corny men love to make excuses that some woman is nasty if she fights for her place under the sun. As woman with attitude, i don’t let certain things.
Man who yells on me and insult me is not welcome. Man who swears and try to humiliate me is also not welcome. Man who look at me as sex object is under my standards. Man who mocks me and try to make fool of me is also out of my standards. I love to make golden middle between cuckold and macho man, so my type is gentleman with attitude. This is kind of man who l…

670. Social phenomenon : why guys ask for nude photos?

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When you meet guy in the club, he will ask you for phone number to invite you for next date, if he is interested. When you meet guy at internet, he has some other options and he could ask you “special” photo. This phenomenon started with appearance of social networks. Some guys discovered new treasure for pleasure, how to get free approach to female bodies. Someone will tell, they can go on porno sites to see naked bodies and watch videos, but somehow is more interesting to know normal woman and ask her for nude photos. When this crucial moment come? You will talk with handsome guy through messages. Day by day, you understand each other, exchange sweet words, he became someone you can’t spend day without. You talk about your life, wishes, plans, slowly he got your confidence. Some guys are really masters, and they will easy build ground for something more spicy. After some time passed, guy sent you his photo, in panties. Free minded guys will send you his pride, naked penis. And then ques…

669. How to chill him out?

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Seducing is a skill for both genders. What is opposite from seductress is ice princess who is tired of wrong men in her life. She wish to know, how to chill them out and find right one? How to make space for man who can’t see her appearance because of many others who stand on her way? Now, you have good friend and he suddenly warm up for you. You wish that he stays in friend zone and not to lose him as friend. Such situations are risky, because rejection of love could mean end of contact in general. Look at some ways how to chill him out: Don’t encourage him when he wish to touch you on more intimate way. Don’t accept conversation about sex. Don’t accept his invitation to be alone in private places. Don’t share your private secrets with him. Never use him as shoulder for crying, when man you wish is not interested for you. Don’t sleep with him just to prove yourself that you are still attractive. If he sees you in ordinary clothes when he invites you to date with him, this will give him sign…

668. Enemy in your bed

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Violence is not visible thing that we can say : This person is violent. There is no title on forehead about aggressive behavior. Man with muscles, bald head and tatoo is not representative person of violent behavior. If we could talk with beaten woman and ask her : “How could you be so blind and did not notice that your husband is violent” , we would be unfair. Violence can happen to everyone because everyone has bitch button. There is a difference between natural aggressive person and someone who is pushed over edge. Hasty man will get mad on every small sign of disrespect, he has no sense for jokes and it is dangerous to tease him. If you say him “you fool” even just to make him smile, he could hit you. Man who is pushed over edge needs more reasons to become violent. Man who is cheated by his wife could forget love toward her and start to hate her. He could feel enemy in his bed because that is not the person he used to think she is. Scarves and bruises are not only track of violence.…

667. Fishy story : when your friends get involve with your lover

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Would you date with your best friend’s ex lover? Would you date with guy who is  her secret crush ? And the last question, would you date with her present partner, until she finds out? Many women will be in shock and say no, how could i hurt my friend like this? On other hand, another group of woman will say “live once, and use every chance, btw it is not just my fault, for game takes two”. Nothing cause more troubles in woman’s friendship zone than appearance of attractive man. Man who captures your eyes , who is charming and unfortunately, a womanizer. This kind a man knows very well his influence on woman’s heart and he will not care are you related with woman who is his target. Classic story begins when two friends are going out in club and they have eyes on the same man. This man could play double game, because two is better than one, just to cuddle his ego. I remember when i was teenager, the same guy kissed my three friends, every Saturday was one girl, and i was last on the line.…

666. Are we slaves of our computers?

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During my 10 years at social networks, i noticed usual pattern . People are mostly lazy to read long posts because of various reasons. They are busy with real life. They are lost in bunch of many info on internet. They prefer to read post of those who read their posts. They prefer to comment post from people who try to please them.  When i was in high school, reading books was stylish thing. People used to talk about Sartre, Proust and Dostojevski, instead of someone’s profiles as nowadays. Today, Dostojevski is guy you can google about. If someone read whole book , that is corny. When i put long status and expect deep thoughts, i got replies – have a nice day and hello. It is not general statement and of course examples are always here. Well, what to say about girl with big boobs who will post thought about her too tight bra, and got 1000 likes? Then, someone will post about cancer and get silence. Someone will post about sense of life to get few comments from those who still wish to read. …