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Are you a heartless woman?

Feelings are not automatic buttons that we can press right ones to act as we wish in this moment. It would be good to press delete or shut down in some opportunities, because it would spare us from pain. Modern woman will say : "I can make love with man and after this i will leave him if he is not what i wanted", but that is part of theory. In practise, things are different, because if you are not porno star or prostitute, your feelings will be involved. 
Some women will try to copy men, for revenge. Just, men are not built from the same materials as women. Man can enjoy in sex and after this he will not date with woman, because it was part of his pleasure, and she is not in his heart. Women are more sensitive, and this planet is full of women who cried because they did not learn difference between sex and making love. 
Black widow is a spider. She will eat her man after reproduction. That is good role model for dissapointed women who wish to swallow partners after pleasure. P…

Are you a powerless princess without other's help?

Independent person is gift for others. Many people love to say, i am independent, i don't need anyone. In the case of struggles and problems, this statement will be confirmed or denied. It is easy to say that you can do all alone when all is going well.

What happens in the case of storm in your life?

Suddenly, you broke and you need money, are you independent now?
Your boyfriend left you and you will call friends?
You got fired?
Your close family member is sick?

Being independent means that you lean on your forces, your previous experiences and that you will not give up.

Ask yourself, do you expect that high force will help you ?

If you expect granny with cookies in front of your door, you are wrong. Success never comes to lazy people. Maybe you will get some surprises, but happiness is not permanent and soon all what you get for granted will turn into big bill. If friend found job for you, he will ask you to return him favor. If you got luck in something, soon you will fail on other side…

Would you play with a gigolo ?

If you are lonely woman, there is no point for despair. You just need to ask for gigolo. Yes, i am joking, but things are changed and feminism brought us new tool to compete with men, and his name is gigolo. 
Word gigolo appears first time in 1920, as french word gigolette , as dance partner who is making company to lonely women, for money. He is male escort, or male prostitute. Statistic talks about itself, so accord one research in 25 european countries, 7% prostitutes are men. One hour will gigolo will cost you about 100 euros, and whole day 1000 euros, it depends about offer and requests. 10% gigolos are from Balcan area.
Materialism is not only women tool. You can imagine man who is lazy to study or to find job, and he is looking good. This man will try to ask easy ways to earn money, and he will take his hook to catch lonely, older women with big wallet. Even some relation between much older women and young men will look like gigolo deal, partners will deny it. Gigolo is entrepren…

Can you forgive to yourself?

Guilt and responsibility are elements of forgiveness. When you decide to forgive others, you will throw out their guilt, and forward this responsibility on yourself. You will forget and look in the future, with hope that they will not repeat the same mistakes as before. Sounds simple, because you set yourself free from burden. Even better, other person will feel bad, because in this moment conscience will work automatically. You are good guy, person who hurt you is bad guy, in this simple equation. 
What happens when you need to forgive to yourself? You know that you did something bad and it hunts you in your dreams. Did you hurt your parents? Did you broke heart of good woman? Did you steal and nobody never caught you? Did you manipulate with someone and now you can't fix it, because person is dead?

Henry was famous as aggressive person. He was ex policeman and he used this power to exaggerate and punish people in cruel ways. He expanded this power in private life and his women had…

Do you live in a box?

If you wish to search key of life, remember all pain which you passed. Under this pain were joy and achievement, because you earned this. You did not surrender, you were struggling, you faced all troubles and still, you keep walking. That is real life, maybe under your expectation, but the biggest reward is that you participated.
When someone dies, we look on his life, as history. A person who had a lot of love, family, and friends did not live in vain. This person will leave track and memories. I don't believe in miracles and I see all unexpected events as a bonus. The rest is on me, and there is no game if I don't want to play.

The saddest part of life is not death. The worst thing you can ever do is to surrender. If you close yourself in the box, you are dead since you were born. Passive people, chickens, and cowards are living in the cage, with big fear that someone will open their cage and air of life will blow them into an unknown place.

How does it look, when you are livin…

Karma is a bitch

Life will not spare us of pain. Tears and wounds are part of living, and we are hurt unexpected, when we are not ready for this. Things are more worse when your friend or lover hurts you. Someone you kissed and hugged, someone you shared secrets and trust suddenly is your enemy. That is double scar, person who break your heart and trust. When enemy hurts you, you are less wounded, because that was not person who lived in your heart.
Our reactions will be various. If you don't wish vengeance, you will forgive, and try to forget. If you like revenge, you will not have peace until you return this kick. Here is one more way, life will be your supporter and karma will do great work.
What is karma and how does it work? I talk about karma as balance. If you do bad things to someone constantly, it will come back to you. If you hurt innocent person, you will suffer with time. If you hurt someone who loves you, you will get the same treatment from person you love. Pain is connected chain, so …

What does it make a material girl ?

Have you ever dream that you woke up and your whole day is free, without any obligation? Simply, you can throw your alarm clock into garbage box and continue to sleep. Your beloved man will work whole day for you, and all you need is to be beautiful, just for him. 
Economic crises has many side effects, and one is flood of women who want to get marry for rich guy. It is hard to find good job, even harder to work 40 hours a week or more, and to be hard working woman and housewife in the same time. If you have kids, you have triple role : wife, mother and business woman. What's left from your life? Do you see how your mirror shows wrinkles, eye bags  and your face is just a shadow what you used to be?
Gold digger is name for woman who wants to get marry for rich, successful guy. If you are pretty and sexy, it sounds as easy task, but that is not at all. Actress Dolores LambaĊĦa, who was in relation with entrepreneur Dikan Radeljak, once said: "That all girls want to jump on my pla…

Are you in the relationship with a person who doesn't love you back?

Painful experiences are our teachers, but also executioners. After someone broke your heart, you cry in the silence of your room and then your mother or friends will tell you "I warned you." You will say that nobody has a label on the forehead with title "Bad guy", but if you know to read between lines, some signs will tell you what kind of person is the boy you fall in love.  Even you believe that nobody can't be cruel if you show love to him, the progress of technology makes people different, and your beloved guy is maybe an emotional robot.
The main problem of every teenage girl is how to make difference between guys who want to take an advantage and guys who take care of you. Even it looks so fine on first sight, suddenly moron broke you in pieces, and you did not recognize him.

Here is a small guideline for beginners, how to recognize emotional robots.
He will know his rights, but never his obligations. So, he will ask sex from you, but if you want to introdu…

Do you let people to take the advantage of you?

Be a good and nice person and people will return your goodness in the same way. Bullshit, because you need to know well human nature before you give your heart to someone. There is a limit between a fool and a good person with attitude. This area is very sensitive and only a few steps can take you into the abyss, to lose your personality because you are a victim of someone's ego.

How can you know that person is using your goodness?
A person never says thanks. You do everything for her, but this is understandable accord her opinion.
A person never has time for you if you need a favor.
A person always compares her problems with yours, and of course, your problems are less relevant.
The person will get insulted if you reject her. She will not talk with you, because once you said no.

Love is an especially fragile area in trade of goods. You are not objective, and you will think that your partner deserves moon and stars, even spaceship, because he is with you. Love is blind because often we …

What happens after love is gone?

When someone said "Love Hurts", the point is not in physical wounds. We can imagine broken heart as big scar and this will bleed for a while until fresh memories get cold. How much time you need to get over the person who devastated your heart?
Mostly, happiness in love doesn't come immediately, from first experience and first partner. That are rare people, who fall in love in 16, and then they stayed together for a lifetime. Before we catch our best match, we will cry, scream and heal love scars. 
When a woman says "you hurt me" this is not the same meaning as when a man says the same. Women are more sophisticated, fragile and romantic. Our expectations are deeper and we fall in love easier than men.

Here are some examples, how women get hurt.
"We had sex and after that, he is nice with all my friends, but he pretends that he doesn't know me." " He said in front of other people that I look fat." " He said to his mother that I am not a se…