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How much safe are your secrets in your friend's circle?

How much safe are your secrets in your friend's circle? Everyone has a secret. Even small one, as something that you stole the chocolate in a child or that your best friend was indeed your secret crush. If something is secret, it means only you know for this, it is in a private sphere and you decide with whom you will share this.  The next level is a confidence, pick a friend who will be your secret's guard. Give him a key to your treasure's box.
A confidence is a very fragile area. How could you know who is enough confidence to trust him? I will tell you my secret from my teenage days, the last time I burnt when I thought that my secret is safe. I fell in love with a guy who was in a relationship and indeed a problematic one. I had a conflict with his girlfriend and she was violent so she kicked me in the nose. I was bleeding and later I got a bruise under the eye. This story became irrelevant after some time because I am the type who will not turn back in the past. Karma di…

Do you expect too much from people?

The expectation is a root of disappointment. How many times you expect something from someone, and it did not realize? You met a great guy, and you gave him all benefits. After some time, you realize he is not into you. He doesn't care about you. You will blame a bad luck, but the truth is different. Did you invest in a dry ground? Are you watering a bad seed? Many people mistake by opening all cards at the first sight. It affects your results because no matter did you find a good friend, a good job opportunity or a possible lover, it will fail if you expect too much. Before you gave someone wings, act in a rational way.
Are you a kind of person who will grab a chance without an analysis? If you owe this characteristic, maybe you leave a wrong impression and people might fool you: You were hurt in the past by some people and you act like a drowning man who took a straw. You are full of praises for someone you don't know very well. You are full of insults after your relationship or f…

7 myths about blogging

Many people are interested to make a blog which will be popular and famous. Once, a girl said to me: "I wish to open a blog site, I have a sense of writing, how does it work? It looks easy." I am a blogger about 5 years and English is not my native language, so you can imagine how hard work was this for me. I was struggling not only with grammar mistakes, I dealt with mockery, critics, and spammers. Well, I did not give up. I self-published 5 books and I met many interesting people. I am a hard nut and I don't give up easily, so I accepted blogging challenge. Meanwhile, I noticed mistakes which every beginner do. A big ego, hard desire for popularity and a strong wish to change lives are indeed obstacles in this way.


7 myths about blogging:
Other bloggers are my rivals and I don't want to cooperate with anyone. Wrong step number one. You will not gain success without the audience, and your audience is other bloggers. Don't underestimate anyone.
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