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Are you a judgmental friend?

People love to look down on someone, just to feel powerful. Judgments are something you can't avoid in gossip's circle, but if the topic is your friend things become uglier. Even in virtual circles, people love to warn each other about their friends. Sometimes I get messages about this "dangerous guy", "filthy woman", "maniac" or "pervert." Especially if the sender is an unknown person, I ignore it. What I think about judgment? I am not a jury. I am not perfect, either. If I chose someone as a friend, I will not judge him. I accept a friend with all the imperfections. We are humans, not robots.  Judging someone means that you are an insecure person . Asking failures with a magnifier means that you are not able to accept someone's personality. People change in a way that life and circumstances changed them.  Why is judgment ridiculous? Everybody has a past . If you stole a chocolate egg whe