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A fishy story : when your friends get involve with your lover

Would you date with your best friend’s ex-lover? Would you date with a guy who is her secret crush? And the last question, would you date with her present partner until she finds out? Many women will be in shock and say no, how could I hurt my friend like this? On another hand, another group of woman will say “live once and use every chance, btw it is not just my fault, for the game takes two”. Nothing causes more troubles in woman’s friendship zone than the appearance of an attractive man. The man who captures your eyes, who is charming and unfortunately, a womanizer. This kinda man knows very well his influence on woman’s heart and he will not care are you related with a woman who is his target. The classic story begins when two friends are going out in the club and they have eyes on the same man. This man could play a double game, because two is better than one, just to cuddle his ego. I remember when I was a teenager, the same guy kissed my three friends, every Saturday was one girl,…

Are we slaves of our computers?

During my 10 years at social networks, I noticed a usual pattern. People are mostly lazy to read long posts because of various reasons. They are busy with real life. They are lost in a bunch of any info on the internet. They prefer to read a post of those who read their posts. They prefer to comment post from people who try to please them.  When I was in high school, reading books was a stylish thing. People used to talk about Sartre, Proust, and Dostojevski, instead of someone’s profiles as nowadays. Today, Dostojevski is the guy you can google about. If someone read the whole book, that is corny. When I put long status and expect deep thoughts, I got replies – have a nice day and hello. It is not a general statement and of course, examples are always here. Well, what to say about a girl with big boobs who will post thought about her too tight bra, and got 1000 likes? Then, someone will post about cancer and get silence. Someone will post about the sense of life to get few comments from th…

The mesmerized lovers

Have you ever feel as you fall in a trap from where you don’t want to get out? 
Do you wish to forget all that you learn about love and surrender to this person to lead you? This hypnotic condition happens when you least expect. You don’t mind if a person is dangerous for you, if he might hurt you or if the future is unpredictable. Now is not important who is this couple, important is the feeling. 
They live on big distance. He can’t miss the day without checking his phone, is there a message from her. She must see him and she calls him because her day gets better after she sees him. He likes her sense for humor. She always finds ways to make him smile, even he spent all day working overtime, all that he wants to see at the end of the day is her smile. She likes his honesty. He said the truth about him even truth was not nice. He did a lot of mistakes in his past and he admits this to her. She did not fall apart when he insulted her. She handles this with pride and closed his door temporary. He…

Be a winner and give up

Give up. These words sound like a defeat, isn’t it? It sounds as you go step behind, back to the beginning. You quit and wipe your tears because your strength betrayed you. Is this right, that you are losing the battle? Giving up is not a loser position. If you look at deeper, giving up is free in some cases. If you constantly go for things which are not for you, giving up is a blessing. You will stop knocking on the door where nobody opens and set free your space for things which will come to you.
Let’s give up from this things: The relation which doesn’t leads anywhere. A job which is not your dream. A friend who ignores you. A boyfriend who sit on two chairs. If you are struggling with a difficult situation, giving up is not the end. It will help you to see things more objective and different. You will be a silent observer. Do you know when you will win the most from love? When you turn back to the partner who is not devoted to you. Don’t feed his ego, be quiet from him and turn him back. …

Lady in a midlife crises

Talking about midlife crises is somehow connected with men. If you see an image of a man who stares in young girls and tries to flirt with them, you will say "silly old grandpa. " We women are not the main subject as horny old ladies who try to reach another youth. That is forgotten, or you did not pay enough attention. Stats said that women jump in midlife crises in 44. Are all women in that age victim of foolish decisions? For sure not. You can be in the twenties or in fifties, but if you are not a reasonable person, your brain will stay useless. I say deliberately because everyone has a brain, just some not use it.  I read many articles about reborn women. Such foolishness as "forties are new twenties" or "my life begins in forties. " Well, if life begins in the forties, what did you do in twenties? I was wild in the twenties, and I am wise in forties, but I will not say that I am living another youth. No, I have no need to compete with girls 20 years yo…