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Why women accept one night stand?

Did you ever meet a guy who told you at first sight that he wants just sex, not relation? What you were thinking then? Even it sounds ugly if you are romantic person, this kind of guy is indeed honest. He is straight forward, and he notified you about his intention, so later if you accuse him that he broke your heart, he will say “i told you i am not ready for relation. ” He ask for acceptance, he said his terms and if you don’t want to act accord his rules, you are out of game. Maybe you want short adventure, so this is ideal for you. No obligations, no cry, no confusion from both sides. If you are woman with objective view for reality, you will not expect miracle. He said to you he is not for serious relationship and you need to respect it. One night stand and you are free. Maybe two or three, but also you are free. Now i come to the point, to situation when woman heard very well what he said, but she pretends deaf. “Well, he will fall in love for sure, and he will change his mind. ” W…

The reality check and the illusion

People use to say: “You live in illusion. ” “You need a reality check. “ What is indeed an illusion? The absence of real beliefs. Flying on the cloud instead of walking on the ground. Too big expectations. Impossible aims. Reality check is a cold shower, something that people need when they fly too high. There must be a difference between vision and dream. Vision is based on real expectation, but the dream is based on imagination. I wish to get married to Brad Pitt. This is a delusional example. I wish to buy a new dress, which is too expensive for me but not impossible to buy. Sometimes, people with manipulation skills will hold delusional people in traps, because in this way they can feed their ego. Woman X lives in the USA. She promised the man from Turkey that she will come to visit him. She delayed her arrival first for 6 months, then for a year. Then she said she will come in summer and later in winter. He is still waiting for her but she hesitates and wants to get on time. He is afraid t…

How to insult a woman without saying a word?

Man X is standing in front of his woman Y, while she is crying . She covered her face with palms and ask for tissue. He asked her : “Why are you crying, i did not do anything to you. ” She said: “That is problem, you did not do anything!” Is that scene familiar to you? When men complain about moody woman’s nature, they will often say : “I don’t understand women, seems i did something wrong but i don’t know what is this. “ Do you have a feeling that your woman is sad after some time? Do you have feeling that she is asking for a fight, even you did not insult her by your words? It is possible to hurt your woman, by not saying any word to her. Man’s logic is concrete, 2 plus 2 are 4.  Men don’t talk behind lines, men are not enigmatic. If man likes you, you will know it, because he will not insult you and represent this as compliment. Problem is, some men are without tact or they think their behavior is normal because they are dominant gender. Well, woman’s logic is more abstract. We wi…

How some men want to gain the attention in the nightclub?

I was always impressed with men who try to gain attention in clubs by their way of clothing or dancing. That was not impressive in good meaning, it was more something what gave smirk on my face.  The guy who tries to show break dance, which was popular during the eighties. The guy who wears a shirt with titles ” I am not a gynecologist but I can check every vagina. ” Guy who wear trousers with so many holes that you can see his pants through this. What impressed me the most were guys who love to go in nightclubs without shirts, to show their torso in hope that they will get lucky. This summer I was with my husband in nightclub with the dress code, where is not allowed to enter without shirt despite summer temperatures. They like to keep their rating, so many security guards around watched visitors to make their rules safe. In the middle of the party, I saw guards around a guy who undressed. He showed his torso with muscles (not bad view) and jump on the wall, that everyone can see them.…