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How to fight back when someone hurt you?

People will hurt you no matter how much good person you are. They will complain at your mistakes which you even did not know it exists. They will neglect your good side as it doesn't matter because they wish to see your fall. This is a reality and I accepted this a long time ago. Not all people are the same so sometimes you will get surprised with good hearts and good intentions, especially if a person doesn't ask anything for a return. When you meet a shining personality, don't give up on them.
I believed in a vengeance before, I even had an imagined blacklist of people who hurt me. I was happy when someone from that list got what he deserved. She passed her karma, he paid his bills. I was thrilled and then I realized, I am thinking about that people, I gave them the attention, even they hurt me. Why give them such award? Do they think about me, unless in a negative sense? Maybe they smile if they heard something bad or they simply ignore my existence?
Sometimes you can fix…

Tell him she is not the right one

Tell someone that his choice is a wrong one, he will be angry at you, especially if you are not close to that person. What is forbidden is indeed interesting because it is a part of the chemistry in a relationship. How many times your parents said you that you should not date with this guy or girl, because they are not enough good for you? How many time you listened to them? I guess you did opposite, according to your preferences and wishes, not accord their orders. A forbidden love has a special charm. That is why people involve into the affairs, to taste a forbidden zone. If you ask someone why he abandoned a safe marriage, he wanted to taste something out of his boundaries. Later he might regret, but the voice of unknown might prevail, and how to resist this? If you want to stop someone to date with the undesirable person, don’t say that person is not good enough. Say what you think and back off, later you will see the result. When Marianne started to date Dave, his mother said th…

Can you deal with a rejection as a mature woman?

He doesn’t respect me. I wish to kill him.  When the insecure woman doesn’t succeed in her intention to get the desired man, she will first talk about a respect. As respect is not a blind alley, it is not enough that you ask for a respect, you must give something to be respected. Every one of us met a man who doesn’t respond to our wishes for different reasons. You are not his type, he is already taken, he doesn’t want a relationship, he wants someone else. Just because your heart beats when a particular man appears, it doesn’t mean he feels the same. If you are a mature woman, you will walk away on the first sign of the rejection. I remember when I approached a man at a prom night, cause I liked him a long time ago. He gently rejected me, and I was drinking just to forget this. Many years later he wanted to talk with me, but I was not available more. I rarely meet him but we exchange greetings on the street because he did not do anything bad to me. I raised his ego, he hurt my pride …