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How differences between couples affect the relationship?

Did you ever wonder why you can't agree with some people? It doesn't have to be your fault or their problem; it is just a wrong connection. If you get attracted by a man who is so different from you and you are constantly fighting, it is just a wrong turn. People with various characters will attract each other at first sight.  Sex is great. You love different things, but you explore each other. You hate him and love him at the same time. You feel like on the battlefield, conflicts are part of your routine. Rebecca fell in love with Adam quick. They were friends, but sparks between them won the game; they slept together. Differences between them became obvious after a few months. He believed in God; she was an atheist. She was ambitious and wanted a place in public media as a journalist; he wanted a family life. She was hot-tempered and Adam considered her as a crazy one. All that he loved about her when they made love became an obstacle i

Never talk about yourself as a loser

We are struggling with various problems. Someone can't be slim. Diets are not working out. Someone can't find a partner. Someone hates their job. We are sometimes in a situation that needs a way out, but the gate is not here. The worst thing you can do is to mark yourself as a loser. "I need to die." "I am not worthy, I can't do it." If you make statuses about this is social media, you will not get useful advice. You will get pity, mockery, or preaching. Remember, people don't know you personally, and they will run away from you because you don't like yourself, so how you could gain their affection? Too much positive attitude is also irritating, so these words make me nervous: The sun will shine for you too. Your time will come. Smile, life is short. Instead of this, I prefer to say: I am struggling, but I am in the race. It is not perfect, but I can well. I am not in a good mood, but things will

Why everyone want to be the influencer?

Many girls are publishing their photos on Instagram every day in the hope to get money. Recently Italian Influencer called the police because it deleted her Instagram profile. She said that is like murder because they killed her business. She said that she spent her money quick on Gucci products. When I finished college, I was working voluntarily for one year on the court. I got only travel expenses, but I worked as other employers who got paid. Later on, I waited one year at home to get a real job; I sent 25 requests for the job; I was on 10 job interviews and it took a lot of nerves and patience. Nowadays many young people are lazy, and they want to get money easily. It spoils those who succeed, and much news is about addictions, suicides, or heart attacks that affect people in their twenties. They don't know to appreciate money. Those who can't succeed are disappointed and complain about a stroke of bad luck. It is not pleasant to take your photos sever

Did your energy match with a social community?

It is not an accident that people treat each other differently. What kind of reaction you get depends on how you behave or does your energy match another's personal energy. Some people can't stand you at first sight. There is something that reminds them of someone else, or your personality is not desirable. I know a woman from my neighborhood who loves cats, but she is very irritating. She did nothing bad to me, but her voice and appearance irritate me.  Imagine a situation when a guy treats you badly, but he adores another woman. It is because you press his "bitch button" even you are not aware of this. Laura was not a favorite at her workplace. She was almost antisocial because she could not fit in this community. Women were talking about hairdressers, recipes for cakes, or weather. They asked her about pregnancy and commented on her unusual clothes. Laura was pretty, but not popular because she was on distance, silent, and sassy if someone wou

Are you afraid of losing friends?

Before you imagine yourself alone in this world, remember the important message: The real friend can't be lost .  During life, we meet different people to hang out with. You will enter a social circle as a child, and other children will not always accept you. They will hit you, scratch you, yell at you, and sometimes you will cry in the corner because nobody loves you. In a teenager's phase, you are streaming to be popular. I invite popular people to dates, and parties and everyone loves them. Your disappointment will be bigger if your favorite ones reject you. When you work, your profession will mark your environment . Some people will try to sabotage you, others will gossip and you will try to fit in. It doesn't matter if you are the best person with the best qualities, there will be always someone who will dislike you. You will never lose real friends. Do you know why? Real friends take not only from you but also give. Real friends a

How does alcohol destroy romances?

It nauseated him. She gave him water to feel better. His lips were dry. He puked in a washbowl, and she courage him to continue, to clean his body from the poison. This was a daily routine after weekend parties. The rest of the day he was sleeping to recover himself.  Sally remembered last night. She was also drinking. 1,2,3,5 or more beers, who count? At first, everything was better. The lights in the club were fabulous, she was a dancing queen and guys looked at her. Later, she went to pee, and the toilet was full of ladies in the line. The fuck , she thought, why should she wait in the line with some bimbos? She was aggressive. She could not wait. She peed outside in the ambush. Then her boyfriend asked her something, she did not hear him. She kicked the wall of an abandoned coffee bar with her feet. "Stop, you will break the window. " Sally was aggressive, and they fought. She remembered everything 6 hours later. Now, Sally is looking at her sleepy boy

Why are insults a bottom of communication?

Everyone gets angry. Me, too. I am swearing, using bad words when I get angry. This is a chemical reaction that is stronger than mine, and I can’t help with this. If you ask me, are there results in this kind of communication, the answer is no. Well, if you ask me, will I do it again, I would say yes. The reason insults are bottom of communication is simple. If someone pushes me to this level that I use insults, I just showed my weakness. It means I can’t control my reactions and words, and my provocateur is winning. Recently someone offended me. I returned his favor, but this conflict is not over. It looks like an endless fight where is no winner. It is more painful because I believed in that person. I had trust in him; we shared our life stories. Now, our communication is based on insults. Who will handle more, or who has dirtier imagination? If this is a battlefield, bullets would fly around. I always had a low opinion about men who insult me, especially if I were n