How to deal with the unwanted fan?

Everyone likes praises. If it comes from the person you like, that is a gift without an envelope. What if you are on an unwanted target?

See how you react to someone who is not dear to you.

Are you flattered when someone gives you a compliment?
Your cheeks blush on every kind of compliment and from anyone?

I don't think so. You probably have a vision of your love or you are already in love, and you care what will your awesome person say. What happens when you get a stalker, an unwanted fan who doesn't want to give up from you? That is really annoying. You want to get rid of that nerd with glasses or you want that fat girl get lost from your eyes, but you are subject to their desires. They won't give up just like that.

You can get a bunch of messages, request for your Facebook and another social network, your fan is here to follow you and that unwanted face jump out from every corner. Wow, almost you can feel like a celebrity, just you need a jumbo picture in his room.

So what to do next?

You may be harsh and reject unwanted love.

You can pretend that a person doesn't exist.

Or, if that person is not so bad looking you can play the game with him or her.

Raise your ego, make comfort if you can't find something you really want. Well, here you can find yourself in a danger zone.

There was a girl from my city, she felt sorry for this guy who was so resistant, but mentally sick. And she went to drink coffee with him but he wrong misunderstands her kindness. And he became her shadow. One night he killed her in an elevator. Her body was found on the first day of the New year.

That tragedy shocked people from my city, and everybody talked about this, how could it be a different end. If he was on time in a mental hospital. If she denied him more firmly. If she just told anyone about this stalker.

The point is, giving wrong signals to someone can make confusion. If you don't want, make it clear. If you don't know, don't decide until you will know.

I think we can't love the wrong reasons, because we are lonely, rejected by someone else, or we want to be popular. If heart says no, listen and act accord wishes of your heart. Use your brain to draw a line, kind of border which some people cannot cross without your permission.

5 kind of editors you can meet

When you are an indie author, you will need editing. That means you will hire an editor who should be professional, American or British. Sending your book to editing doesn't mean your job is over. If you take edited book for granted, you might be unpleasantly surprised. If you look on Amazon shelves, every second book has a comment about "bad editing". It happens even to successful writers. What is important is to spend your money for editing in smart way. If you pay, you need to get edited book in return. The way how some editors work is various, and some of them might disappoint you. What kind of editors you can meet? Slow editor . You submitted your book for editing before two months, it still did not arrive. When you impatiently wait to publish your book, time is precious. Fast editor . This editor will bring you back your book for 24 hours. It is not serious work. Even if English is your mother tongue, there are still mistakes you might not seen. It looks like someo

My new horror novel

A horror suspense is my favorite genre. This Friday is my new book release by Red Cape Publishing, a British publisher. It is a story about Alex, a woman who has a brain tumor. Committing a crime, she will escape and hide in Cornwall. Meeting a rich businessman, she got an opportunity to change her life. A generous offer has a price. Alex has only one choice, to be the hunter or the prey. https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B0CV17HRLP

Social media: how to react to negative comments?

The virtual world became a platform where people expose their frustrations. If you post something positive, you will not get reaction. Ignorance is mostly present when you express your happiness. If you post something that irritates people, you will get negative reactions. Many young users use internet to write negative comments, put dislikes and troll others. We are witnesses to young generation who is angry, passive and without a purpose. You Tube opted out dislikes for public. You can see in your private statistic a number of dislikes. Some people have a bad humor and don't have a clue how their reaction can hurt others. You will tell me this is a freedom of speech and free choice, but also as an owner of my profiles in social media I have right to restrict negative comments. I am against censoring and dictatorship and every critic is welcome, but I don't tolerate rude and abusive behavior. Besides, if someone leave a negative, rude comment, that gives an ugly example to ot

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