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143. How success spoils people?

Imagine that your life suddenly change over night. You might get rich. Nothing makes person so poisoned and gloomy as success. Drink this sweet champagne and enjoy in taste, you are privileged person. 

Yesterday you were poor, today you are  rich, and how to be flexible with this change?

The moment you started to be famous and rich, main questions will be:

Who is your real friend now?

Who are your enemies?
How to treat people who loves you, and how to deal with others who hate you?
How to treat new people in your life, as potential friends or rivals?
Where you will invest your money?

You will need backup with many ingredients. Honesty, truth, loyalty, don't forget real values when shinny stars are all over you. Maybe you are role model for others, but be able to look yourself in the mirror and don't lose your roots and your identity.

Justin Bieber is still so young, but press talk about his behavior . He was in brothel and did not pay to prostitutes, he spit on flag in Argentina, and he said to his fan girl that she looks like whale. Handsome guy with sweet voice, and now he needs to prove who is the boss?

In Wild West was sheriff with gun who was shooting to make an order. It was necessary because drunk cowboys who played poker were dangerous, and sheriff made discipline on hard way. Nowadays, we have stage and glamour, and gun is no more dress for success. Famous person is not on all points bulletin . Wanted dead or alive for his or her head? No, we want to see our idols in their best edition. Also this is lesson for crowd, girls are running and crying for Bieber, but be careful if you are size 44, because he will invite you to show The biggest loser. 

We can forgive to Bieber because who knows what we should do on his place, with his ages and his money. 

On social networks we could saw bigger stars than Bieber is. 

The other part of this story are provincial people. They could be cocky jerks and narcissists. Local guy opened his own fitness center and his profession  is a kick boxer. He created profile on social network and all women became crazy for him. He uses his popularity to drag naive girls into his bed and later he doesn't know their names. He enjoys in attention, and if you ask any favor from him, you will not get it. He is here to collect attention and admiration, not to give something for return. If you say something opposite to him, you are jealous, envious and frustrated. You don't want sex with him? For sure you are lesbian. Don't forget to tell him every day how sexy is his body and how strong are his muscles. He has dress for success, oiled muscles and firm body, and you are here as his dog on the chain. 

Don't bark too much, just sit and wait for your bones. You might choose, be a slave and follower or just say no and leave . You might be poor and without money, but your personal freedom has no price.

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