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How we handle the reality

The daily routine is a silent killer. You are somewhere in the city, meeting with a thousand undesirable people, their faces insult you with their existence. Do you wish to see a beggar who asks you money, drunk kid who is crawling with a bottle of wine in his hand or a poor old granny with vegetables in bags, asking desperately who will help her to carry her burden? No, for sure you will wish a young girl who will bring you a cocktail with cheery or man with muscles who will do unforgettable massage. Or you wish to swim in the swimming pool where only you have access. The biggest freedom is indeed financial freedom. When you don't need a tram to get on time because your driver will take you. When you don't need to share your office with the old boring hag and wake up in 6 in the morning, to catch the bus where the driver will listen to terrible folk music.  When your neighbors will not ring on your doors at the moment you just came from work. this world which

Learn how to say NO

The key to happiness is in rejection. Protect your area and your circles. If we will let anybody to enter our life, then we will have to recycle bin. Human nature is not as delicious as sugar cake. People are of all kind, stalkers, pests, desperate losers, maniacs, fools. If we will be available for all, what it leaves for us? A good example is a person who will always let anyone poke nose, who will do a job for others without complaining. One day such a person can sit on the toilet and pee with a cell phone in her hands, just to please all wishes. Probably you have a boring neighbor who drinks coffee for hours and always has a bunch of gossips for you. Or your phone rings all the time because your mad boss wants that you work overtime. Maybe your best friend again broke up with a boyfriend and you must listen to her tragedy, version number 100. Some situations when is necessary to say no: A phone call in the early morning. It is not an emergency

Where is empathy nowadays?

One simple thing can make you smile and your day will be better. As much as your mood is bad or sad, something will capture your attention and you will forget your troubles, even for a moment. I went to the shopping mall to buy some food for dinner. I met a man with a bloody face; he asked for more beer. I suppose he fell, or he got hard kicks from someone, but the impression was like in horror movies. Freddie Kruger is in the shopping, walking around without purpose.  People were in fear. What will that creature do to break something or find some victim? Is it necessary to call the police? The guy took empty bottles for money and went out, like nothing happened, with his bloody face. It seems he had no mirror on his way home. This event showed something else.  Nobody cares, only in case of scandal people will ask what happened.  I mean, wf, that is an only drunk dude, who asked one more bottle of beer. His face was bloody, so what? Probably he fell on the groun