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465. Cupid's attack

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Cupid picks his victims randomly. You don't know to whom you will fall in love, and suddenly his arrow hits you in the middle of heart. Do you think that person will be handsome, smart and rich guy? Do you think he will love you back? No, that is not guarantee. He can be average or even ugly. He is maybe poor and nasty. If he doesn't love you back, you can't blame him either.
We are responsible for our choices, but how to explain this to your heart? Some of us will never recover from unhappy love story. Before 11 years, Croatian actress Edita Majić made decision to become a nun. She settles down in Spanish monastery, as Carmelite nun with high level of discipline. She had problems with drugs and her love story had bad end. Now she says, she is very happy.


What can happen after your sad love story?
You wish to escape from this world. Some will make suicide. You wish that you never see person who broke your heart again. You will stop to believe in love and maybe this is root of p…

464. Mama's boy

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In old Greek legend Edip killed his father Laj and married with his mother Jokasta. Too much devotion accord one parent, and lack of feelings for other is basic of Edip complex. His affection toward mother is part of Freud theory , for men who seek women with the same characteristic as their mothers.
For sure you met single men who are connected with their mothers on close way. This pattern is always the same. He lives with mother, she is cooking and washing his laundry, and he can't find woman who will take her place. Even when he finds her, his standards are so high that she gave up from him. 
Dave is one of them. He has over 50 years, good job as manager in private company, he was travelling around world. His life is full of adventures with many women, but he never wanted to settle down. His mother is in the role of housewife, and other women are in the role of mistress. He feels less obligated to mother, than he should be to his potential wife. She supports his way of life, beca…

463. Princess on the peas

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Did you hurt someone today? You will say : "No, i am not such person. I would not kill even fly. I watch my language. "  
Examples from real life will show you an opposite. We are hurting each other every day, without awareness and warning. Even if you walk on eggs, victims will lay down around you.
One day you forgot to say hello to old woman next door. She will get hurt. Her reaction: "Behave yourself. You did not say hello to me? I am your first neighbor. " Next day you forgot to open door to old lady, because her hands were full of bags, she was in the market. You were rushing, so you did not open fucking door. She will say again: "You are monster, can't you have little compassion toward old people?"
Even you think that you are on safe zone if you don't talk and if you talk only with kindness, your behavior can also hurt someone. So, let me see your day at work. You are man, so you did not shave your beard. What will your boss say? "You brok…

462. Kiss of death

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Knife in the back is the most painful tool of sufferness. That is double scar: we are betrayed by someone who had our trust and we are fooled by our visions. Don't blame yourself, you are not the first neither last who experienced this. Once i meet someone who gave me love, at least it looked like this. That person kissed ground where i was walking. Until our relation was place for harmony, everything was perfect. Situation changed during the first conflict. Suddenly, i was not beautiful woman of his dreams. I was smug , bitch and devil. Then i noticed pattern : it happened everytime when i had different opinion about something. That relation turned on real war and we finished as enemies. All we could agree in the end, was to break every connection between us.
People will ask : "How wonderful love can turn into incredible pain? " 
If you can turn back movie , you will look at things with different eyes. Real love can't transform into hate. It will happen only with so ca…

461. Killer inside of us

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When life starts to slap you from every side, you will survive or fall down. That is why quote says : "What doesn't kill you makes you stronger. " We could analyse why some people became ruthless, harsh or even heartless. Circumstances define you, no matter do you wish this or not. Every bad experience will leave track at your soul, and you will never be the same person as before. Rules of survival are cruel.
Elaine was girl from poor family, they had a lot of unpaid bills and once she was studying for exam with the light of candles. She had only one pair of boots and she spent many winters in them. When Elaine finished her education and got a job, her clients complaint that she is too harsh. Even her boss said : "Please, try to be warmer with people. We are here to help them." Elaine was formal and she did her tasks accord the law. She was good lawyer, even some clients considered her as cruel. As she used to say : "I am lawyer, not a nurse or nanny. Accep…

460. Trade of fluids

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It is big humiliation for woman when guys take an advantage of her. Any woman doesn't like to be used as piece of flesh. Imagine that you love someone so much, and all what you got is trade of fluids. So if you are man, and you ask woman : "Do you want to have sex with me?", think about who is she and what she means to you.
As much any woman despise to be a number in big chain of sexual partners, there is something worse. If woman feels that guy doesn't desire her, she will be frustrated too. So now guys are in confusion, what women really want?
This is a story about Helen. When she was young, all guys from her city were crazy for her. Blonde, blue eyed and tall woman was their Barbie girl and she changed many sexual partners. She was hungry for men and they were thrilled by this. Later she got married and had two daughters. Years and life ruined her good look, she got diabetes and her body changed. Suddenly she was too skinny, too wrinkled and her blue eyes got dark s…

459. Your house of cards

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When you live in the cloud of expectations, you will expose yourself to disappointments. In your mind is a scale, top list of things which you expect from some people. When they don't bring you what you wished for,  result is depression. Expectation is background of hope. What is indeed hope? That is transparent spider net of dreams. One little touch of reality and it will break. So if you live from expectations, it means you forgot the other side of life, real one.
Megan met this guy Nathan in the club, he drove her home while she was drunk. He cared for her until she was vomit, and she saw savior in him. Next time her best friend was also drunk, and he drove her home. Megan did not expect that Nathan will care for her friend, she thought she had exclusively right for his care. She felt sting of jealousy when Nathan called her friend next morning to check is she alright. Soon she realized that Nathan is kind of saint who like to help people, but he is not ready for serious relation…