The best period of life is youth. Time is passing by very quickly, and if we don't gain what we wanted there is space for emptiness. It is like a mosaic, one cube is missing. Now you are an old man or old woman, and when you turn around yourself what you can see?
Or here is something that you missed, but not behind you, this is forward you?
Hugh Hefner for sure could be a role model of many men who wanted to be playboys, but for some reason, it could not work. All these beautiful sexy ladies around him, and he needs only to pick. Many men dream about harem because it is boring to have one woman for a lifetime. I bet male fantasies will include young and beautiful women, kind and sweet, without any questions, ready to realize hidden men's wishes.
So, what is with the average old man, retired, who has no money for beautiful young women? He can only look around or make fool of yourself. For example, Samuel is old and ready for retirement. He has an awful habit to kiss all women at his work, he will always find an excuse that someone has a birthday, that he is a wonderful friend or simply hungry for attention. Secretly, he sent an email to young women next door. When she got an old fashioned postcard on email, she told him that he is an old fool. He was offended but lucky she did not tell her boyfriend, otherwise, Samuel would be retired much faster than he thought.
The same is with some old women. Once when children are gone, when grandchildren don't take care of her and husband is dead or sick, some women made a profile on internet pages. You don't believe it? At Facebook you can see many fake pages, photos with young women and under that are old grannies who are sad or bored with life. She wants fresh meat or just one guy who will listen to her. One mature woman in fifties can fool young naive guys around because she is a master. She can be a serious obstacle even to young girls because she knows how to give attention to inexperienced, lonely boys who never had a girlfriend and who are afraid to approach girls in their ages.
Or she can even open profiles with male photos to make confusion around. But, in opposite to men's strategy, old women will more pretend. She will play the role of friend or mother, ready to help with advice and to be in service. What are the consequences of midlife crises? When people lose their path, aim, and purpose. When they have wishes, but they don't have a future.
Every phase in life is filled with troubles.
When you are young, people will not get you serious. If you are mature without children and partner, people will sorry for you. When you are old, people will consider you as a burden. But everything depends on the person.
When you are young, people will not get you serious. If you are mature without children and partner, people will sorry for you. When you are old, people will consider you as a burden. But everything depends on the person.
Especially old men and old women should have a large amount of dignity and self-respect. They should know what is decent, normal and suitable for their ages. In the end, they are role models for the next generations, so their inheritance should not be some fake page or erotic email.