How to gain the respect?

There is a quote: respect is hard to get and easy to lose. Respect is based on all areas of life. If someone loves you, he must respect you, there is no real love without respect. If you have no respect in your friend circles, your friends are fake. Also, when you have no authority at work, it means you are disrespected.

Some people are born to be respected, but others must work hard to gain respect. Imagine a woman with big breasts and children face in business circles. She must try hard to get respect for her cooperators. The human mind is superficial and very often people will not think of her as a business lady. Stereotypes are obstacles on the way to respect because it is hard to change what is in other's heads. You can help yourself in this situation, to teach people what they can't do. If you wear dirty clothes, if you swear until you are talking, your message is clear: "I don't expect respect from you."

Barbara was a really sexy nurse and nobody gets her serious. Even some doctors had a habit to pinch her or comment her big decolletage. One day it was enough, and she replied properly on the joke about her. When she was sitting, her boss said: "You can open legs more to see your panties. " She replied: "At your age, I would buy bigger glasses. "

It was a scandal but she earned respect as in prison, in a harder way. Sometimes we must play games to earn respect. Sometimes we will be in a situation to slap a person who shows disrespect.

The same is on social networks. There are so many traps where people can feel disrespected. When someone adds you and ask for sex on camera, this person is bad-mannered. Delete and block, because, so pity you can't slap him or her. Unfortunately, social networks are the lair of disrespectful people and they have all the freedom to express this.

If you want that others show respect, you must have self-respect. Don't let people make bad jokes with you, to spit on you without punishment. Some people learn in a hard way, the same as a donkey who needs a paddle to behave. There is a difference between joke and provocation and this boundary is connected with respect. If you think you don't deserve respect, others will feel this and you will not get what you ask for.

Start with yourself and your respect will grow day by day. One of the most important things which you need to know is how to use NO and YES. In your mind is a list of what you allow, and what is forbidden. Surround yourself with people who respect you, because respect is a chain. Once when you wear an invisible crown, others will know that they can't mess with you.

5 kind of editors you can meet

When you are an indie author, you will need editing. That means you will hire an editor who should be professional, American or British. Sending your book to editing doesn't mean your job is over. If you take edited book for granted, you might be unpleasantly surprised. If you look on Amazon shelves, every second book has a comment about "bad editing". It happens even to successful writers. What is important is to spend your money for editing in smart way. If you pay, you need to get edited book in return. The way how some editors work is various, and some of them might disappoint you. What kind of editors you can meet? Slow editor . You submitted your book for editing before two months, it still did not arrive. When you impatiently wait to publish your book, time is precious. Fast editor . This editor will bring you back your book for 24 hours. It is not serious work. Even if English is your mother tongue, there are still mistakes you might not seen. It looks like someo

My new horror novel

A horror suspense is my favorite genre. This Friday is my new book release by Red Cape Publishing, a British publisher. It is a story about Alex, a woman who has a brain tumor. Committing a crime, she will escape and hide in Cornwall. Meeting a rich businessman, she got an opportunity to change her life. A generous offer has a price. Alex has only one choice, to be the hunter or the prey. https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B0CV17HRLP

Social media: how to react to negative comments?

The virtual world became a platform where people expose their frustrations. If you post something positive, you will not get reaction. Ignorance is mostly present when you express your happiness. If you post something that irritates people, you will get negative reactions. Many young users use internet to write negative comments, put dislikes and troll others. We are witnesses to young generation who is angry, passive and without a purpose. You Tube opted out dislikes for public. You can see in your private statistic a number of dislikes. Some people have a bad humor and don't have a clue how their reaction can hurt others. You will tell me this is a freedom of speech and free choice, but also as an owner of my profiles in social media I have right to restrict negative comments. I am against censoring and dictatorship and every critic is welcome, but I don't tolerate rude and abusive behavior. Besides, if someone leave a negative, rude comment, that gives an ugly example to ot

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