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What makes a difference between fighters and cowards?






When you have to deal with problems, usually you will get advice: "Be strong." Our characters are different and we will handle our hard moments in different ways.

Someone will cry and breakdown is possible. 

 You pass through a tough breakup or divorce? You will need a hand, but the main decision is on you, how you will handle this situation. If you are a strong person, you will not ring on the door of your friends every time when you feel sad and when your ex is missing you. The very important part is your pride. Face it with problems because they will not run away overnight.
Life can be as an earthquake, the ground is shaking under your feet when bad things start to ruin your safety. The time of crisis is an explosion. The bomb is here, your life will crush, you will collect small pieces, behind you is sound of the rattle and you are lost. A strong person will consider this situation as a challenge. Well, life is testing me, so let me see how I can deal with this. I am a fighter, so my odds are not big, but I am in the game. That moron left me and I will find the better guy. In fact, he does me a favor. I had no power to leave him, but I will be enough strong not to call him back. 




If you are weak, you will think about suicide, because for you now is an end of the world. 

 I will not love anyone as I loved him, he was everything to me and my life is over so I will start to plan my funeral. This pathetic elegy is the main problem of weak people, they give up even they still have a chance to fix things. We can see this difference in childhood. Little weak boy loses in the monopoly game. He will cry, he is furious and next time he will not play because of the afraid of defeat. His friend is a brave guy. He will also lose, but he can't wait next time. This is adrenaline, challenge. He is very happy to get this kind of revenge. Now I will smash him and I will win, this is how he thinks.
When you got a bad mark at school, will you give up on studying? Let's leave school, all this is shit and I don't want to bother anymore. Or, you will prove to the teacher that you are not an idiot. You are a candidate for an excellent mark next time.
Life is not a fairy tale. If anyone thinks that life is just an unwrapped gift, that person is very wrong. We can see in movies that some people can get anything because they are benefited, powerful or simply lucky. This is not a realistic view. Behind every victory and happiness is a background. If you dig into other's lives, you will see pain, grief, struggle. Ask reach businessman how he gets success. His money doesn't come from the sky right into his hands. It was hard to battle, and the way to success was full of thorns.

Darwin said: "Only the strongest survive." The strongest people are not those who are over 100 kilograms in weight. They are not wrestlers or kickboxers. Real strength came out from a clear mind. You might beat everyone if you are resistant, if you don't give up and if you believe in yourself. If someone thinks the opposite, make a challenge. The real fighter will respond to your challenge. Coward will hide in the rat hole and eventually, he will gossip you behind your back.

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