It will happen that people will leave your life. Circumstances, conflicts, or various interests will change your friend's circle.
In one life period, you will face its problems alone. There is no help and assistance from friends because they have gone.
This situation, however, has some advantages.
Your friends will not give you bad advice.
Your friends will not lecture you.
Your friends will not use your dirty laundry against you.
You will not owe favors to anyone, because they helped you once.
Facing problems alone demands a high level of discipline and concentration.
Those fake people can return later when you gain success. In my example, it looked like this.
Hellen worked voluntarily in the court. Her boss used her and complained about every task she did. After she found another job, she got a message from her ex-boss to help her with some documents. Helen replied: "Excuse me, the wrong number."
Beware of flattering people and those who support you while you are winning.
Why do people leave your side?
When your boat is sinking, nobody wants to be with you. They were afraid of their reputation.
People are not willing to sacrifice themselves.
People are selfish and shallow. It is easy to find friends for parties, but a bunch of them will leave when you face problems.
The principle of reciprocity demands to treat people how they treat you. If your number of friends is getting smaller, remember that one good friend is better than a bunch of fakes.
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