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6 things you should never tolerate in relations

Tolerance is beautiful human value. It shows a path to handle people when there is no reason for this. It shows us how much our nerves are strong. Also, we learn about ourselves, where are our limits. How much bad things some person can do before we erase her from our life? It depends on the level of your tolerance.
When you love someone, your tolerance is higher than usual. At the moment when you start to look this person with sparks in your eyes, you will lose objectivity. Everything you learned with years could be forgotten. You learned that you can't run for a person or beg her, you know that you can't allow someone to humiliate you. All these lessons will be covered with stardust of love. One his smile, and you will forget why you get angry on him. One his kiss, you will remember just why you love him. 
People are not saints, and forgiveness is not unconditional. Before or after, you will realize situations when your beloved person takes an advantage of you, and it will cha…

The duff ( Designated ugly fat friend)

Do you know the meaning of word DUFF? That is Designated fat ugly friend, by urban dictionary. So, now you expect creature about 100 kilograms weight, with thick glasses or pimples on face, who wish to be in your company? Or, maybe you wish to find someone similar, to pull more attention on yourself because two good-looking persons will look better with a third, plain or ugly person, who is walking with them? Society is cruel, especially when you are young. Everyone will talk about inside look, about the beauty of personality, but these things came out when you get older. When you are young, there is a possibility to collect crumbs from your pretty friends, because you are duff. 
Saturday night is here and you wish to go out, to meet awesome guys. You focus your attention on one, but he is too handsome, too cocky or just unavailable. Lucky for you, he has a duff friend. 

What is the task of this duff?
You can talk with a duff friend, to collect info about your guy.
If you are familiar with…

It is not my business?

Your decisions are results of choices. If anyone asked you, is it right to stand in your way, you would say no. Nobody has right to make an influence on your choices or to involve in something personally. Is that really true?
Imagine that your family member or friend has big issues in relationships. For example, your sister has a husband who beats her, and she doesn't want to leave him. Will you talk with her or him? Or, maybe your friend run for a man who makes idiot from her? Your heart is breaking because you can't help them. Your conscience cannot be quiet until you do something, no matter the result.
When I was a teenager, my mother gives me advice about a guy who called me in the middle of the night. I was angry on her, I said that she can't separate me from a man I like. It was an indeed manipulative bastard. He would call me and talk about possible suicide if I will not meet with him. After our adventure, I realize that my mother was right. I saw a man who was fragil…

The mistress by a recommendation

The relation is sharing of responsibility. Some men are not ready for relations, but they can't admit this to himself. They are searching, exploring and hurting women. Then, they will regret when is too late. What kind of expert advice should be given to immature men? Find a mistress, not a girlfriend. Find a woman who is married and who asks for a lover.
If you make a poll between women, they will not hide facts about lovers. If you wish to avoid egg in your face, don't ask a married woman about secret affairs. The answer will be: "I am a loyal and pure woman. Who, me? I would never do that. " An opposite, if you ask men, they will compete. Men in midlife crises, businessmen, playboys, they will brag about their mistresses because that is a symbol of power. 

When Prince Charles had affair with Camilla Parker Bowles, he proudly said that he would like to be her tampon. When Princess Diana had lovers, publicity judged her, as a woman under moral question. In history tim…

Things which money can't buy

The sound of money is favorite music for the ear. Who would not like to be rich? Imagine what you can buy with money, but also imagine what is still unreachable, despite your big wallet?
When Sam was angry, his mother would buy him chocolate. When he was crying, she would give him money for ice cream. As a teenager, Sam got a new car because he broke up with a girlfriend. His parents were rich and they wanted to make him happy, with money. As an adult man, Sam did big success. He is a boss in one successful private company, his wife has own fashion line and they are a rich couple. It looks perfect, but during one of his business trips he found a mistress and he bought her flat, just to meet with her from time to time. When Isabella, his mistress wanted to cut her wrists because she was lonely, Sam bought her plane ticket for Tahiti, to travel and clear her head. He has a solution for everything.  One day Sam got a new neighbor. She was separated woman, with a small kid. She was attracti…

How to get rid of a mistress?

Sparks are cruel tool. At the beginning two people will fall in love and they can't explain chemical reaction between them. Why they want to rip each other clothes, why they want to kiss all the time, and why everything is less important than their love, answer is somewhere in the heart.
When this situation chills out, love is discarded, person is rejected and it could be obstacle to your future. What we can say, that all what happened wasn't real? Or it was just magical moment with deadline?
Some men are simply promiscuous. They will get marry and once when they feel comfortable, hunter zone is again opened for them. What they need is mistress. They will find mistress, but then , after some time, mission is accomplished, and what now? They need new flesh, but how to get rid of old flesh?
Stephan is one of the bosses in high position, he works for government. He is in happy marriage, with two kids. His secretary, Alice, is sexy young woman. Once, in business trip, they involved a…

Leave a bad relationship with a dignity

When two people fall in love, there is an explosion. What makes situation confusing is the level of their feelings. A person who falls first is in danger because another person will have an advantage. At the moment when you fall in love with someone, you give him the power to play with your heart. What happens if your partner doesn't love you on the equal way? What if he only wishes to play with you, without serious feelings?
The worst advice you can hear is "flirt with others to show him that he is not only one." In this way, you will declare yourself as promiscuous, and he will chill out from you. He will also feel less responsible to hurt you because you give your heart to others too.
If you ask the reason why some women are promiscuous, the roots are in their past. Look at the woman who is changing guys as socks, she feels pain inside, because, once upon a long time ago, someone broke her heart. 

How to recognize promiscuous lady with emotional scarves?
She is dating wit…