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655. Unfriended, deleted and blocked

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Once when you are connected with someone as friend you share everything. Tears, laugh, joy, sadness. You are confident, many secrets stay hidden and relation develops as kind of blood connection. Having a friend is a treasure, loss of friend is damage. Technology surprised us with new phenomenon called virtual friends. As much internet separates people because we stare in our gadgets more than we should do, also internet connect people from different part of the world, in the way how we never imagine. Indeed, i would never met people from Turkey, Thailand , India and other countries without internet. That places i never visited in real life and maybe i will never see, but thanks to that people i feel their culture and i share their mood with them every day. We trade photos, opinions, conversations and enjoy in our differences and experiences. When you break contact with friend in reality, you will turn your head on the street. You will not say hello. Maybe you hear gossip later. Mayb…

654. Virtual narcissist - true story

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Every new person in our virtual life is field of risk. Are you opened to new acquaintances, and you are the one who easy open doors to person in virtual world? It could be great act of empathy, but this kind of decisions are not always clever. If person is from another country and depends to another system of values, risk is even bigger. You never know with whom you are dealing with. Love is one of areas where we are the weakest. One sweet smile, hot look, sweet words and this kind of stranger is already in our house. How you protect yourself from sudden troubles? Melinda was big fan of social networks and she spent hours and hours by typing with strangers behind computers. One of them was Greek man Nikos. She felt in love in his voice, actions and charm. Also he introduced himself as musician and gave her password for his official site. They soon got involved even Melinda had boyfriend. Melinda got bored in safe relation and she wanted some excitements. Nikos was good partner for that,…

653. How to recognize your hero?

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Why women like heroes and why man fall on women in troubles? That is instincts from ancient times, when man was hunting beasts to protect and feed his family. Fragile woman waited him in cave with his children who were proud on their dad. Time has changed, but this phenomenon stayed as factor of attraction between genders. Let me ask you something, women. Would you love guy who always save your back? Would you fall for friend who is here for you even you hurt him ? Would you start to get close with man who accepts your failures even others stay away from you? Now the same question for men. When you see lady who constantly get into troubles and fight with windmills, is this attractive to you, at least that you want to get her into your bed? Woman who stuck into troubles is indeed dangerous. She asks for troubles because she know that here will be always kind of guardian angel who will save her. She also enjoys in this adventure because she is adrenaline addict. Did you look on this wa…

652. Sex appeal - real point

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How much times you were attracted by person who is not classic beauty type, but she is example of dazzling personality? You can't stop think about her because she is simply vibrating? In this case, you are in trap of sex appeal and fatal attraction.
My friends described this as : „He is not handsome man, but he has something inside of him. „ „I dated handsome guys, but i lose breath when he is near..“ „I did not like him on first sight, but when we started to talk i could not take my eyes from him. „
Sparks are weird thing, some kind of magic which occupy us totally, so we will see only beauty things, and forget failures when we look person who captured our attention.
We don't seek for aesthetic values, more we observe our reactions. So, he is not your type, but you are blushing in his presence, you are clumsy in your speech, your heart beats too fast even you laughed to him before few days and you said to your friend that you dislike him?
Alan was average man, slim, with haircut …

651. Fragile male-female friendship

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Male-female friendships were always topic for discussion. Cool quote “we are just friends” is good excuse for celebrities when they got caught in walking with person from opposite gender, or while they are drinking coffee and they look very close. When jealous wife nag to her husband that he is too kind with female office roommates, he will reply “we are just friends. “ If someone catch you in conversation with ex boyfriend, and you blush but you don’t want to tell about nature of your relation, you will say : “we are just friends. “ Well, what is this friendship indeed and where are boundaries? Indeed is hard to be friend with person of opposite gender who is attractive and with whom we feel pleasant, spend much time together and imagine all kind of reasons just to stay in contact. If that person is in marriage or in relation, often hanging out will cause jealousy from her partner. Martin and Vera were inseparable childhood buddies, they came home in dirty clothes when they were playing i…

650. Seductress - queen of marketing

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Love choices are lottery. If you don't get jackpot or at least small award for comfort, you will stay with empty pockets. Well, as it is familiar jackpot is only for the luckiest people or for those who are already a long time in this game. Just, is choice of your soulmate matter of luck or at least there are some other elements?
„If he is right one, he will like you even if you wear bag, you don't need makeup and expensive clothes“ – that is how your granny said , and the same has written in romantic cheap novels, about couples who lived happily ever after. Granny Mary met grandpa Steven while she was working in vineyard, and she has no expensive purse and she has never heard about cosmetic saloon neither manicure or pedicure. Steven liked her in simple dress, homemade blouse and without makeup. Well, Steven was not Internet user, otherwise, who knows what would happen.


As times has changed, perception of beauty changed too, so nowadays beauty is created, not gifted by nature.…

649. How to burn bridges and get over a jerk?

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There is a quote: „Time heal all wounds.“ Well, this statement is only partly correct. The truth is life is going on and life circle is full of changes, but what miss in this proverb is bad experience from past. In other hand, we must sow new plant on problematic ground, we must work in garden which need new seed and it rejects foreign flowers. It means we will enter in new relationship full of doubts, paranoid and in fear, under suspicion that we will repeat the same pattern from past . Many times we came in situation to compare our present love with past, even unconsciously in head we made scenario that our new story will finish on exactly same way as past romance. Previous experience is wound and it might be obstacle to beautiful life in present. Of course, we don't talk about rape or abuse, these are extreme cases which need expert help that normal person might continues with life. We talk about normal relation and ordinary problems in love. It is all about experiences which ever…