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What makes a difference between fighters and cowards?

When you have to deal with problems, usually you will get advice: "Be strong." Our characters are different and we will handle our hard moments in different ways. Someone will cry and breakdown is possible .  You pass through a tough breakup or divorce? You will need a hand, but the main decision is on you, how you will handle this situation. If you are a strong person, you will not ring on the door of your friends every time when you feel sad and when your ex is missing you. The very important part is your pride. Face it with problems because they will not run away overnight. Life can be as an earthquake, the ground is shaking under your feet when bad things start to ruin your safety. The time of crisis is an explosion. The bomb is here, your life will crush, you will collect small pieces, behind you is sound of the rattle and you are lost. A strong person will consider this situation as a challenge. Well, life is testing me, so let me see how I can de

Have you been on the other side of the sanity?

When everything is going down, we could feel as in a trap. A million problems can appear around us and we cannot find the way out. Maybe we will look on the other side of reality, into dreams. What is happening during the process of sleeping and can we think about our dreams as messages? Maybe we need to translate that hidden messages and one dream is indeed secret code.  Olivia had a tough year. She was released from work, her boyfriend breaks up with her and many friends turned her back. Suddenly nobody had time for her. A woman without a job, without love and without comfort. She was thinking about suicide. She was introduced to darkness. Her life was an abyss and it was no way out. She tried to send appeals for the job, she was calling people she knew to go to the coffee bar with her, just for one talk, but everyone was busy. In despair, she had a date with a guy who was driving fast and she almost had an accident.  One night she slept in tears, so tired, with

Do you overrate yourself ?

Vanitas vanitatum et Omnia Vanitas. That is an old Latin proverb. All is in vanity. It talks about someone who thinks that is the center of the world. Such people think they are always the smartest, the most beautiful and perfect in everything. They will not accept another opinion, but they will teach and preach others because this is their mission in this world. If you want to capture the heart of such a person, just play on the vanity. Even this vanity is their weapon, also it can turn into weakness and hit them back like a boomerang. Once you press that button, your way is open to get what you wish. Even to take revenge. Some women believe that they can have every guy they met. Tracy is a model and she is beautiful. She thinks that every guy on the internet is here to admire her photos and her beautiful face and body. The world is spinning around her. She thinks that every woman is a bitch who is jealous of her. Once she was in long relation, about four years. She

How the success spoils people?

Imagine that your life suddenly changes overnight. You might get rich. Nothing makes a person so poisoned and gloomy as a success. Drink this sweet champagne and enjoy the taste, you are a privileged person.  Yesterday you were poor, today you are rich, and how to be flexible with this change? The moment you started to be famous and rich, the main questions will be: Who is your real friend now? Who are your enemies? How to treat people who love you, and how to deal with others who hate you? How to treat new people in your life, as potential friends or rivals? Where you will invest your money? You will need backup with many ingredients. Honesty, truth, loyalty, don't forget real values when shinny stars are all over you. Maybe you are a role model for others, but be able to look yourself in the mirror and don't lose your roots and your identity. Justin Bieber is still so young, but the press talks about his behavior. He was

Murphy's law - the unlucky story

When something is bad, don't worry. It might be worse. Everybody has one of those days when everything is going wrong. You get up and spill hot coffee on your white dress and then you must clean the mess and get late at work. There you will meet the grumpy boss and hysterical clients. When you finally can go to lunch pause, food in the business restaurant will be disgusting and someone will sit near you to talk about work during you chew this bitter meal. You will think that someone hit you with a spell or made a voodoo doll, but this is just a bunch of negative circumstances. This is the opposite of what you wish because you sent wrong energy to the universe, and the universe replies you back with bad events. Can we block our good luck? Yes, we can do it unintentionally. Sheila wanted that guy Tony so much, and he was not cold toward her, but she had one unwanted admirer at her workplace. Brian was her roommate and it was hard to work with him,

6 kind of authorities at the workplace

It is not easy to be an authority. You must give an example to others, you have big responsibility and others will blame you if something is going wrong. Like it or not, someone can consider you a bad person and probably people will hate you. Many jobs have a system that someone is a boss, and others are subordinated. It is like a pyramid, one is on the top, others are under him, and position underboss is lower and lower.  There are many kinds of bosses. panic boss - a hysterical person who cannot handle crises in a good way, especially if the boss is a woman, influence on other workers is negative egomaniac - he or she is always alright, smart ass, it is hard to convince that person on the opposite clown - nobody gets this person serious, he has no authority, he jokes with coworkers and his coffee break is not defined dictator - if you don't listen to his orders, you can be fired very soon, because he knows the best copy

Would you choose to be average or a famous person?

It is not easy to be famous. You want to reach the top of the world, but still, you are not the only one. Competition is tough, some would like to cross over the corpse just to gain success. Nowadays things are getting more harder. Taboo is not something that will raise the dust. Everyone knows about naked bodies in "Playboy", about porno movies which are stolen and published, about relations with married men and women, it is not forbidden to act promiscuous and homosexual.  Your album is not sold? Your book is not popular? Do something to pull fans on your side. otherwise, you are broke. So, what to do to make more attention and more admiration and to make our fame bigger? Serbian model Mina Milenković got an original idea, how to play the role of victim. She lied that she is kidnapped and raped. It would make a double effect: victim in the eyes of publicity and more famous because she was so strong to handle such serious troubles.   A game wi