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Middle aged women and millennials are bad combination

Before 2 days I got a message from a guy 20 years younger than me. I could literary give him birth. A kid is playing on Instagram and he bragged how MILF sent him messages. MILF's are women in their forties who are hot, and hungry for pleasure, accord his words. He thought he can start this kind of conversation with me. He pretended that he likes my books, even I know he did not read even a magazine. A millennial guy is busy collecting followers and likes, he has no time for books, because that is boring and old-fashioned. I always saw a real man as someone who doesn't spend much time in the virtual world, unless it gives him earnings. Real men are busy making money and working, they are not young virtual gigolos who wait for desperate women to show their naked dicks.  Yet, some brats ask for an easier way to get sex, virtual or real. They don't need a car to pick up a girl. They don't need money to buy her a drink. All that they need is a fast i...

Do you attract wrong people?

You wish to attract a certain person. Your vision is about someone who will support you, offer a shoulder for crying, and be someone you can lean on. Instead of this, you got a passive person who will not move a little finger for you. Or you got an egoist who just thinks of himself and his needs. It is wrong to blame a person who is in your life now. You could blame your choice, or research your character. What is inside of you that attracts someone like this?  What kind of impression do you leave? If you are a fragile woman, kind and obedient, you will attract a tough guy who will stand by your side and protect you. If you are a strong, independent woman, you will attract a soft man, phlegmatic or unstable who will give you the freedom to do what you wish, but you can't count on him to stand by you because you can do it better by yourself. The trouble is, what if you are independent and strong, and you wish for an equal partner? Do you need to prete...

Did your energy match with a social community?

It is not an accident that people treat each other differently. What kind of reaction you get depends on how you behave or does your energy match another's personal energy. Some people can't stand you at first sight. There is something that reminds them of someone else, or your personality is not desirable. I know a woman from my neighborhood who loves cats, but she is very irritating. She did nothing bad to me, but her voice and appearance irritate me.  Imagine a situation when a guy treats you badly, but he adores another woman. It is because you press his "bitch button" even you are not aware of this. Laura was not a favorite at her workplace. She was almost antisocial because she could not fit in this community. Women were talking about hairdressers, recipes for cakes, or weather. They asked her about pregnancy and commented on her unusual clothes. Laura was pretty, but not popular because she was on distance, silent, and sassy if someone wou...