Rebelious rules by Kristina Gallo

Imagine you must represent your work in public. Thousand people stare at you and watch your every move. Suddenly, phobia made power, and you freeze in the place. Your voice is trembling, your body is shaking and now you have a panic attack. Now it is getting worse. You will see mocking in their faces, you will hear laughter and insults. This is not a movie, this is something that happens to you. Spending years fighting the fear of public appearance, I learned some tricks to relax. Focus. Remember what is your primary purpose, why you come here. Practice. Have a public appearance when you get the opportunity. It means workdays, seminars, and interviews.  Choose a small step. Zoom that happens in your room is a good intro. If you can't stand up in front of hundred people, you can open a camera in your room.  Remember, ignorance prevails. Many people who come to listen to you are not listening. They just want to be anywhere to kill their boredom. Pick your role models. Some peopl...

Egotrip is a punishment for those who have it. Let's suppose you are an educated person, a geek, young and ambitious and the world is under your feet. At least, you are thinking so. You might think you have perks to look down on others. The moment you underestimate your competition is your weak moment. This is a game between David and Goliath, and the strongest will not always win. If you are a man, a woman can beat you. If you are pretty, a less attractive woman can steal your man. If you are young, older competition can beat you. You can never know what kind of card someone holds in their pocket. If you have a sword, be careful at the moment when you use that word, it can turn against you.  Forgiveness is not always a value. Not everyone will forget and forgive what you did to them. Karma and paycheck are bad guys who will hit you from the corner when you don't expect this. Everyone has a boiling point, be careful where you are standing. Someone doesn't like mockery. Some...

You can't be alone nowadays in the real sense. Your cell phone is always with you, together with tablets and computers. WI-FI is everywhere, so when you sit at the coffee bars, you can check your gadgets to see is anyone there to talk to you. You might lose your friend's circle during life. They will get married and separate from social life. They will work in another city. Even when you will wish to talk to them, you will realize there is no accurate topic to talk about. "How are you? How is at work?" it will be a formal question, and you will get an answer: "I am good. It is alright with my work." Further questions will be: "How is your wife? How are kids?" "She is good. Kids are good, too. " This will not be a conversation you wish for. You used to talk about plans, dreams, dates, and now life becomes a formality. It is scheduled life, it is conversations about loans and bills, kids, jobs, and there is nothing special about this. There...

There is a quote: You can't bake a cake from shit. That is how is with a man's nature: you can't change a bad personality. If you are hanging out with a man who is primitive, uneducated, and promiscuous, you can't expect to turn him into a noble gentleman.  Women who claim to change a man's personality, lie. They live in illusion because if the change happened, it is not because they did it. Reasons why men change their attitude are: They passed through a bad breakup or divorce. They got old. They feel lonely. They are mature and tired of games and flirting. They fall in love with younger women. When his time comes, a man will do basic things to change his approach to relationships. He could pretend to catch young women, rich women, or get rid of bad habits. Sometimes, this is cruelty: he was using women for sex in the past, now he is acting like a gentle daddy to his child. Women will be mean and said "I was the right ...

I am introducing my new book in the Amazon, "The Seller of Sins. " This is a story about passion and betrayal, but mostly about marriage between two people who felt alone even. They are together. This is not happily lived after the story, because many elements missing. They are without children, both are stubborn and both love their freedom.  When a mysterious woman appears, they were already deep in problems, she just pulls it on the surface. If you love dark stories without prejudices, if you love soft erotica and drama, this is a book for you. Especially, the important part is in the virtual world where morals died, boundaries are erased and it involves your real life in illusions from the internet.  Here is the link to the book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07ZWJYH55/ref=cm_sw_r_tw_dp_U_x_RqsVDbK07JGW4 From the preview:  She was too weak for a fight with life’s obstacles, but death would cut off any chances to stay in the race.   Secretl...

Emotional emptiness is worse than a breakup. In the state of a breakup, you will yell, cry, or throw anger outside of you. If you are numb, there is only dead silence. It is hard to feel something. Desires died, this emotional thrill is not present anymore. Now there is a desperate attempt to wake up your desires again. Whoever passed through this state, it is familiar to feel like a paper. Now you are somewhere outside. Do you notice someone, where all the sparks went? Handsome boys are outside, but you don't notice. Someone is winking at you, but you don't care. Someone gave you a compliment, but this is annoying. After a breakup with Gavin, Sylvia emotionally failed. This was a stormy relationship, and she felt like she spent all the energy on him. She was again in the game, but nothing excited her more. She picked up her old friend Sam; he was her fig-bird in the past. He was the ideal partner to comforting her. They made love and Sylvia felt app...

In your life, people will reject you. They will say NO because there is no spot for you in someone's life. It happens. People are like in a puzzle game, sometimes you are the piece that doesn't fit in. Your attitude matters. It is not the same as how you accept rejection.  If you yell, scream or treat with revenge, you are childish. If you cry or beg, you are desperate. If you swallow this in silence and don't look back, you are mature. During life, you will lose business opportunities. You will lose partners for relationships. You will lose friends. Even if you are very smart and exquisite, there will always be someone who will say NO. Do you think you can have every man if you are a beautiful woman? You are wrong. Rejection doesn't have to be in NO form, always.  This is also NO between lines: I want you, but only temporarily and sometimes. I want you, but only in my bed. I want you, but only as a second choice. ...

Did you ever wonder why you can't agree with some people? It doesn't have to be your fault or their problem; it is just a wrong connection. If you get attracted by a man who is so different from you and you are constantly fighting, it is just a wrong turn. People with various characters will attract each other at first sight.  Sex is great. You love different things, but you explore each other. You hate him and love him at the same time. You feel like on the battlefield, conflicts are part of your routine. Rebecca fell in love with Adam quick. They were friends, but sparks between them won the game; they slept together. Differences between them became obvious after a few months. He believed in God; she was an atheist. She was ambitious and wanted a place in public media as a journalist; he wanted a family life. She was hot-tempered and Adam considered her as a crazy one. All that he loved about her when they made love became an obstacle i...