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Why you should not force your plans and wishes?

  If you wish for something really hard, take a step back.  Remember the day when you wanted something so badly and you felt you will die if you don't get it. That day, you made pressure on your wishes and plans. You were in a state of despair. You did not have plan B. Fear ruled with you because you did not reconsider, what will happen if those wishes don't realize? Let's assume you forgot what you wanted the most. Time passed, you were busy, and those wishes are pushed into the background.  Suddenly, your dream is a reality. The guy who did not notice you invited you on the date. You found a job even though you gave up on it. New opportunities appeared, even if you did not ask for them. Your energy guides. If your energy is negative, that means you are full of fear, anger, and rage. Then you can't deal with rejections, you are attacking everyone who disagrees with you, and you are self-destructive. If you are calm and don't expect too much there is no pressure. Th...

Don't let people waste your time and energy

If anyone asked me what is most important before a few years, I would have different answers than now. I did not appreciate my time and peace enough. I let in my life people who did not deserve it. After I cut it off, I realized how much clean space I have for others who deserve that spot. How can you know who is the right friend for you, and who is not? It sounds so simple, but it is not. You can’t know someone at first sight. Everyone tries to represent in the best light, hiding flaws like snakes are hiding legs. When you know the person better, some things swim out on the surface and the previous diamond loses its shine. That is why is not good to glorify people, they will screw you. How do you know that a person wastes your time and energy? A person who talks only about herself.  I was there, this happened to me, that guy adores me, etc. A person who talks with underestimation about your problems.  Oh, that is nothing. I survived worse than that. A p...