Why you should not force your plans and wishes?

If you wish for something really hard, take a step back.

Remember the day when you wanted something so badly and you felt you will die if you don't get it.

That day, you made pressure on your wishes and plans.

You were in a state of despair.

You did not have plan B.

Fear ruled with you because you did not reconsider, what will happen if those wishes don't realize?

Let's assume you forgot what you wanted the most. Time passed, you were busy, and those wishes are pushed into the background.

Suddenly, your dream is a reality.

The guy who did not notice you invited you on the date.

You found a job even though you gave up on it.

New opportunities appeared, even if you did not ask for them.

Your energy guides. If your energy is negative, that means you are full of fear, anger, and rage. Then you can't deal with rejections, you are attacking everyone who disagrees with you, and you are self-destructive.

If you are calm and don't expect too much there is no pressure. The view is open, energy can flow freely, and opportunities will fly to you like birds.

Imagine you are a woman who doesn't need love at the moment. You would be happy to find love, but you will not scream and destroy everything around you if you can't find a relationship. Now, it is coming to you. You are patient, don't rush, and are ready for compromises and agreements.

People will avoid emotional vampires. You know at least one with this speech:

"OMG, I was born unhappy. My wife cheated on me, my son was injured in a car accident, and I lost my job. It must be a devil's deal. Let me tell you one more detail..."

People don't want to listen to emotional vampires. They ask for solutions, not despair. So if you feel you can't get what you wish, step back. This is just regrouping, not giving up.

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